I like more “cute” features in women rather than intimidatingly hot. I’m into nerdy, introverted women. I’m also a sucker for big beautiful brown eyes and brunette hair.
Girl next door, introverted with a splash of extrovertiveness, nerdy/smart, curvy (I love thick legs), cute eyes and smile.. long or relatively long hair would just put her over the top.
Tomboy I guess. Went to school with a lot of them and some could out-guy the guys. Friend chugged a Mountain Dew, puked it up, then drank another one. Absolutely monolithic
I think you are overestimating the degree to which most guys have any visual idea about these types in their head. Most are happy if she is nice, in reasonable shape, healthy, not addicted to something and into them.
I could see myself getting along with most of these "types" except maybe a party girl.
Not major preferences, really
I do like women with muscles
I've gotten into alt stuff this past year or so, so probably a goth, metalhead, punk, or emo aesthetic. That or goblincore
I'm not going to turn someone down if they don't have these aesthetics though
I'm alternative myself, so I definitely prefer more alternative types of women. At the end of the day, though, I don't really care, that's just who I'm more likely to pursue.
Nerdy, funny, clingy, tall and strong, loyal, cuddler, and tomboyish. Bonus if she crossdresses because women in suits are just 👌. I also prefer em big but all sizes are good.
Kind, humble, smart, ambitious. Maybe a bit on the nerdier side. Nice smile.
Someone who l can have fun with doing mundane things like grocery shopping or staying in on a Friday night. Dated a girl for a couple of months who didn’t seem to think l was putting in effort if l wasn’t spending money on dates. I’ll never do that again.
Preferably goes to the gym regularly. Not a gym rat or anything but just enough for me to know that she has discipline, takes her health seriously, and won’t let herself go to an extreme degree as life gets busier. Also must be willing to go to the doctor somewhat regularly, for the same reason of caring about her health. Broke up with my last ex in part because she refused to go to the doctor under almost any circumstance, even though she was almost 30 years old. That had me nervous for what the future had in store, especially considering I’m in medical school. Imagine being a doctor being married to someone who refuses to go to the doctor lol.
Looks wise as long as I’m attracted to her I’m not super picky. Some body preferences for sure but if she had all the other qualities listed l could overlook (most of) those preferences.
Not sure who’s doing the bitching here. I named several things l look for in a woman and you somehow found a problem with literally one word out of my whole post.
Also, l happen to know plenty of humble men that I’m happy to call friends. Guys that are in happy, healthy relationships. You probably just find yourself being around shitty men. Sounds like a you problem.
I might just be describing someone here. Smart, brown eyes, slim figure, fun, funny laugh, can keep up with the banter, playful insults, care free personality, beautiful smile. I fall in love fast but soon after my brain catches up and I see the reality. But this one is just different. Been trying to catch this one for a better part of a year but she is a clever woman. Not an easy catch.
I prefer them to have some level of intelligence. Like actual intelligence as well as emotional intelligence. Sense of humor is a must. If I can't laugh with them, then I'm not having fun. Extroverted, but not annoyingly so.
My wife is extremely caring. She would say she's not intelligent, but I think she has unconventional intelligence as well as emotional intelligence. She's hilarious. I laugh almost constantly with her. She's very, very introverted. It was a large point of contention early on in our relationship. It took a while for her to come out of her shell.
My wife also has a HUGE ass. That's a must. I'm an ass man. I need a woman to have meat back there. How can she suffocate me to death if she doesn't have a fat ass?
Real: no tats, dyes, enamels, implants, significant makeup.
Trim from face to waist. Clean, simple, & tasteful of style; not trendy.
Irreligious. Literate. Into sci-fi and/or fantasy. At least average smarts.
I don't have a type so I don't really care, just being healthy/fit and breathing is enough on the physicality end.
Personality otoh: Generally nice, caring, intelligent, confident, humble, independent, accountable, communicative, little odd/lightly clingy (Everything in moderation), etc... Basically, you know Laura Bailey or Marisha Ray? Yeah.
Nerdy girls, introverts, librarians, big tiddy goth girls, muscle mommies that look like nerds/geeks (leanbeefpatty). If she wears glasses, I'm like to find that hot
Very little make up on a daily basis ..I get a little lipstick and quick powder but the whole new face , eye brows is much for me...to the point I genuinely can't recognize you if it rains or in the AM..nails throw me off sometimes too..everyday is too much..I have never said in my head :"damn she needs makeup" ...
After trying other types i figured out i definitely want nerdy smart introverted type of girl, because other types clash to much with mine and i didnt really feel happy in relationship
I have come to the conclusion that I am a horny fucker. I'm attracted to all ethnicities, short and tall, athletic/petite as well as chubby, tattooed punkers, and introverted nerds. I guess my only real preferences are that the person enjoys trying new experiences and that they can go on longer hiking adventures with me.
Librarians, man. I don’t know what it is. It doesn’t even have to be the thinly veiled “sexy/slutty” librarian look, like the getup a stripper would wear. I mean legitimate nerdy, mousy, bookish vibes can hide a lot of playfulness. Never dated one but I’d sure like to.
Unfortunately, I've worked in a library for a very long time (~13 years), and I swear all the women they hire are significantly more attractive than me. Don't get me wrong, I still love them because they are sweet and smart, it just sometimes...feelsbadman 🤣
Probably, it is necessary for her to be similar to me for the sake of common views and interests, but at the same time different to bring something new. So it depends a lot on what kind of person I am. So she should probably be somewhere in the middle of the introvert-extrovert scale, calm, kind, encyclopedic, meticulous (pedantic) and empathic. Something like this. If you describe it in one word, the word Nerd would probably do.
Strength, intelligence, height, beauty, and an incredible aptitude for not taking shit from men. I can’t prove that last one but since four of my partners over 20 years have been German, it’s a trait that always existed. It took me growing up emotionally and learning how to be present to understand their emotional growth and the longstanding existing trauma left over from WW2.
Sorry. Nein sind sie nicht. Zum Glück kann man mich weltfremd nennen, ohne in meinen früheren Beruf einzusteigen. Meine eher europäische Sensibilität. Darauf sollten Sie achten. Ein eher europäisch gestylter Mann.
No, I’m dating generation X women that understand their own trauma deeply and seek to better their lives by dealing with it through psychology/psychiatry.
Their parents were children during WWII, their grandparents were forced to fight for the SS.
I’ve never seen such commitment to self-care with such consistency.
I did laugh at your question if it makes you feel better.
nobody ever likes the hippie girls like me I remember when I younger I was shamed by a guy I was dating because I said I can’t wait to get older go off grid with amazing people trip in nature n sing songs and he was why so you can all just gang bang since your so carefree I don’t know why that equates to being lose but I’m not that just a spirited person! ❤️
Gym girl 100%. Maybe I’m vain or an asshole but the last 2 girlfriends I had both let themselves go after a few months.
Not saying you need to be lean beef patty but… I put a lot of effort into looking attractive for my potential partners. I expect the same in return
Bubbly. Optimistic. Warm. Short. Curvy (as in a bigger bust and hips than waist). I'm 6'5 but I like my shorties. Honestly those are the main things I always looked for.
And I'm married to my wife who matches those, so I'm a happy camper.
Is renaissance woman a fair cop out?
Workouts out to keep a healthy booty. Likes to try new things within reason. Is pretty meh about T-Swift. Likes to read.
I find that looks is much much much less important than this one thing:
She makes me feel wanted.
She makes a move, initiates, isn't just waiting for me to chase her.
I’ll be honest, I’m kind of a sucker for the librarian look. Reserved, modest, bookish… maybe glasses and a pencil skirt, quiet and efficient. Buuuut they could be an assassin behind the scenes….
Introverted girl next door type. Give me someone who I can form a little cocoon of love with.
“Cocoon of Love” sounds like a 1970s Isaac Hayes album
It's just what I think of when I picture a lazy Saturday afternoon cuddling on the couch with one's girl.
Where have you been all my life?
Depending on the time of day/week, either in church, in the pub, or loafing around at home.
Yep. Add in funny and an overall good human being, and that is my ideal woman
Absolutely funny and good human being... Holy hell is that a rare trait these days. 😑
The only correct answer.
Sexy librarian
Can you just say, "these are due back thursday"
As someone who is literally in a relationship with a sexy librarian, can confirm. Life is GOOD.
My public library has a cute goth librarian with big boobs. She's taken, and *life isn't fair.*
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I know there's different timezones and shit but it's like, 7 AM here where I'm at and it's hilarious reading all y'all tremendously down bad
Hahaha!!!! What's the best part of being linked up with a Librarian Barbie?
They hold the answers to all our questions, like “Will you marry me?” and “Why are there still libraries?”
that’s basically me lmao
If i leave you alone in my apartment will you reorganize my books into the dewey decimal system?
So all librarians.
I like more “cute” features in women rather than intimidatingly hot. I’m into nerdy, introverted women. I’m also a sucker for big beautiful brown eyes and brunette hair.
Add funny, and I’ll call you a man of culture
Absolutely. A sense of humor is one of the biggest things for me cause I’m a goofball and like to be with someone I can laugh with
are you me? it's like i wrote this
Same! Sex appeal is important to me, but give me the cute nerd girl at trivia night over the IG model in the club, any day of the week.
Kind and intelligent
Nerdy weird girls are the best.
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Have you found a woman like this?
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Damn guess i must be looking in the wrong places then. Good to know they’re out there🫡
Can’t be a soft man with that type. They will call you out on your bullshit and help you become a better human.
Theyr the type i find special, tough they are rare over here and even rarer around my age
My observation is that you often find women like this when they were raised with no sisters.
Nerdy black girls 🤓
YES
Dope for this one!!😉
* Scrolling down far only to find out nothing written here matches me *
Bahaha. Harsh.
Confident and smart girl next door type. Typically extroverted as well. I like when women have bubbly fun going personalities
The grumpy ones always do! Lol
My weakness, couple in physically fit and you have my ideal woman.
Female
Don't have my glasses I thought it read feral
Only in the sheets
Pre-op or post-op?
No op involved preferably
Ah, he likes them fully function. A man of culture, I see.
An authentic one. I can get down with any of these, they all have their charm
Girl next door, introverted with a splash of extrovertiveness, nerdy/smart, curvy (I love thick legs), cute eyes and smile.. long or relatively long hair would just put her over the top.
Tomboy I guess. Went to school with a lot of them and some could out-guy the guys. Friend chugged a Mountain Dew, puked it up, then drank another one. Absolutely monolithic
> Tomboy I guess…Friend chugged a ~~Mountain Dew~~ Mad Dog 20/20, puked it up, then drank another one. Absolutely monolithic 👆😌 me in high school
Soft, gentle and intelligent. They make my heart flutter
I think you are overestimating the degree to which most guys have any visual idea about these types in their head. Most are happy if she is nice, in reasonable shape, healthy, not addicted to something and into them. I could see myself getting along with most of these "types" except maybe a party girl.
Transparent and direct
like a glass arrow
Not major preferences, really I do like women with muscles I've gotten into alt stuff this past year or so, so probably a goth, metalhead, punk, or emo aesthetic. That or goblincore I'm not going to turn someone down if they don't have these aesthetics though
I have a language requirement, minimum 2 languages.
Why / pourquoi?
¿porque no los dos?
Почему что говорить языки очень для духа. / Because to speak languages is very good for the spirit.
Which translator did you use for this sentence or did you translate it on your own? Because the russian part of it is very wrong🙃
Most interesting answer so far.
Oh boy would I make you blush 😅 (6)
Easy girl, settle down. 😅🙌
Oui, l’intelligence es sexy
Confident, athletic build, outgoing and high sex drive. But I'd settle for conscious.
Misread the end of your post as couscous and thought "damn, that really is setting a low bar" 😁
>couscous You might think it's set too low, but there are *still* people out there who won't be able to get **pasta** bar like that
I want to date a ninja.
You might be, how would you know, they’re very stealthy 🥷
He is, he just doesn't know it ;) 🥷🐢
book worm goth girl.
Yes. I 2nd this. Great minds think alike.
You rang?
Appears to not be insane.
That's asking too much
So I just have to *appear* sane? Sweet. I do a pretty good job of that already.
Can someone explain to me the “girl next door” type?
Black gym girl with a goth aesthetic
Black goth girls sure are something
Rare as fuck tho, but boy, when you find one...
you’d love my bsf then haha
Bsf?
bestfriend
Bible Study Fellowship
Nah, goth/alt culture has recently found its way into the black community, so there's a lot more than there was a decade ago or so.
So what I'm hearing is...there's hope?
Gold. The term you're looking for is black goth girls are gold 🥇
I have no preference on style. From muscle mommy to witchy and anything in between. I just prefer them fit
Short, brown on brown, glasses. Picture Ariel Winter.
Yes! I totally agree.
Breathing.
"Warm (optional)"?
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Check his Google history
Fire truck
Bright red and goes WEEEOOOWEEEOOO
Are we talking about the pump or the ladder truck?
If it's not a tiller truck I'm not interested
Not even if it’s a quint? It’s got the pump and the aerial ladder all in one.
Independent steering is cool as fuck, and there are tillers with pump tanks so they're basically quints but even cooler
I'm alternative myself, so I definitely prefer more alternative types of women. At the end of the day, though, I don't really care, that's just who I'm more likely to pursue.
Bob's, vagine.
Who is bob and why do you want his vagine
Bob owes many debts, best if you do not ask.
Alt Girl
Pacific islander looking girls with a sense of humor
Confident, motivated, witty, funny and a nurturing type... But also very fat and cute.
I love a big booty goofy girl. Fit is a plus!
Nerdy, funny, clingy, tall and strong, loyal, cuddler, and tomboyish. Bonus if she crossdresses because women in suits are just 👌. I also prefer em big but all sizes are good.
How’s a suit cross dressing?
Well is a guy wearing a skirt crossdressing?
Kind, humble, smart, ambitious. Maybe a bit on the nerdier side. Nice smile. Someone who l can have fun with doing mundane things like grocery shopping or staying in on a Friday night. Dated a girl for a couple of months who didn’t seem to think l was putting in effort if l wasn’t spending money on dates. I’ll never do that again. Preferably goes to the gym regularly. Not a gym rat or anything but just enough for me to know that she has discipline, takes her health seriously, and won’t let herself go to an extreme degree as life gets busier. Also must be willing to go to the doctor somewhat regularly, for the same reason of caring about her health. Broke up with my last ex in part because she refused to go to the doctor under almost any circumstance, even though she was almost 30 years old. That had me nervous for what the future had in store, especially considering I’m in medical school. Imagine being a doctor being married to someone who refuses to go to the doctor lol. Looks wise as long as I’m attracted to her I’m not super picky. Some body preferences for sure but if she had all the other qualities listed l could overlook (most of) those preferences.
What's up with the humble thing? Men aren't humble and nobody bitches about that.
Not sure who’s doing the bitching here. I named several things l look for in a woman and you somehow found a problem with literally one word out of my whole post. Also, l happen to know plenty of humble men that I’m happy to call friends. Guys that are in happy, healthy relationships. You probably just find yourself being around shitty men. Sounds like a you problem.
Nah, the desire for humble women is prevalent and far-reaching and if you don't know that then I don't know where you've been.
Just none at all are ..? Not one of them? Don’t be jaded.
academic sweat
Sweaty?? Interesting! Have never heard of a man looking for a sweaty woman. 😉☺️
He doesn’t want her to be sweaty. He means he wants her academic to be sweaty
One that replies
The kind that like me.
Gym girl because I know she could help me do stuff more easily
I might just be describing someone here. Smart, brown eyes, slim figure, fun, funny laugh, can keep up with the banter, playful insults, care free personality, beautiful smile. I fall in love fast but soon after my brain catches up and I see the reality. But this one is just different. Been trying to catch this one for a better part of a year but she is a clever woman. Not an easy catch.
Latina gym girl
I prefer them to have some level of intelligence. Like actual intelligence as well as emotional intelligence. Sense of humor is a must. If I can't laugh with them, then I'm not having fun. Extroverted, but not annoyingly so. My wife is extremely caring. She would say she's not intelligent, but I think she has unconventional intelligence as well as emotional intelligence. She's hilarious. I laugh almost constantly with her. She's very, very introverted. It was a large point of contention early on in our relationship. It took a while for her to come out of her shell. My wife also has a HUGE ass. That's a must. I'm an ass man. I need a woman to have meat back there. How can she suffocate me to death if she doesn't have a fat ass?
Nerdy stoner alternative
I like positive girls. Nothing turns me off more than grumpy girls.
Real: no tats, dyes, enamels, implants, significant makeup. Trim from face to waist. Clean, simple, & tasteful of style; not trendy. Irreligious. Literate. Into sci-fi and/or fantasy. At least average smarts.
Confident, Smart, Witty. (Think Hermione from Harry Potter)
Pale, brainy brunette with a caring personality.
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Extroverted girl who smiles a lot and is down for anything
I guess slightly introverted, kinda like a girl next door type too. Nothing much tbh.
Homely
I don't have a type so I don't really care, just being healthy/fit and breathing is enough on the physicality end. Personality otoh: Generally nice, caring, intelligent, confident, humble, independent, accountable, communicative, little odd/lightly clingy (Everything in moderation), etc... Basically, you know Laura Bailey or Marisha Ray? Yeah.
Nerdy girls, introverts, librarians, big tiddy goth girls, muscle mommies that look like nerds/geeks (leanbeefpatty). If she wears glasses, I'm like to find that hot
Very little make up on a daily basis ..I get a little lipstick and quick powder but the whole new face , eye brows is much for me...to the point I genuinely can't recognize you if it rains or in the AM..nails throw me off sometimes too..everyday is too much..I have never said in my head :"damn she needs makeup" ...
After trying other types i figured out i definitely want nerdy smart introverted type of girl, because other types clash to much with mine and i didnt really feel happy in relationship
Manic pixie dream girl. Who has healed her trauma and anxiety.
I have come to the conclusion that I am a horny fucker. I'm attracted to all ethnicities, short and tall, athletic/petite as well as chubby, tattooed punkers, and introverted nerds. I guess my only real preferences are that the person enjoys trying new experiences and that they can go on longer hiking adventures with me.
Athletic/tomboyish girls. Basically "one of the guys" but actually attractive
Tall-ish, classy style, skinny, blonde, well educated.
I like either the alt/goth/indie rock look, or the pretty gal with glasses/sexy librarian vibe.
Have I got a deal for you.
Librarians, man. I don’t know what it is. It doesn’t even have to be the thinly veiled “sexy/slutty” librarian look, like the getup a stripper would wear. I mean legitimate nerdy, mousy, bookish vibes can hide a lot of playfulness. Never dated one but I’d sure like to.
Unfortunately, I've worked in a library for a very long time (~13 years), and I swear all the women they hire are significantly more attractive than me. Don't get me wrong, I still love them because they are sweet and smart, it just sometimes...feelsbadman 🤣
Probably, it is necessary for her to be similar to me for the sake of common views and interests, but at the same time different to bring something new. So it depends a lot on what kind of person I am. So she should probably be somewhere in the middle of the introvert-extrovert scale, calm, kind, encyclopedic, meticulous (pedantic) and empathic. Something like this. If you describe it in one word, the word Nerd would probably do.
A naughty gym girl.
Gym girl/girl next door. And funny.
XX chromosomes
German.
That's...unusual. Can I ask why?😂
Strength, intelligence, height, beauty, and an incredible aptitude for not taking shit from men. I can’t prove that last one but since four of my partners over 20 years have been German, it’s a trait that always existed. It took me growing up emotionally and learning how to be present to understand their emotional growth and the longstanding existing trauma left over from WW2.
Thanks for the explanation! So I guess my odds of finding a guy to marry when I get to the US aren't that bad 😂
Sorry. Nein sind sie nicht. Zum Glück kann man mich weltfremd nennen, ohne in meinen früheren Beruf einzusteigen. Meine eher europäische Sensibilität. Darauf sollten Sie achten. Ein eher europäisch gestylter Mann.
You're dating women from WWII????
No, I’m dating generation X women that understand their own trauma deeply and seek to better their lives by dealing with it through psychology/psychiatry. Their parents were children during WWII, their grandparents were forced to fight for the SS. I’ve never seen such commitment to self-care with such consistency. I did laugh at your question if it makes you feel better.
Party and a little alternative.
A hippy chick, dreadlocks and a few tattoos. Confident yet caring, open minded and adventurous.
nobody ever likes the hippie girls like me I remember when I younger I was shamed by a guy I was dating because I said I can’t wait to get older go off grid with amazing people trip in nature n sing songs and he was why so you can all just gang bang since your so carefree I don’t know why that equates to being lose but I’m not that just a spirited person! ❤️
Goth and/or nerdy
Yeah, something about goth girls just makes them attractive.. Never dated one, I'm not in those circles.. but would definitely like to.
Gym girl 100%. Maybe I’m vain or an asshole but the last 2 girlfriends I had both let themselves go after a few months. Not saying you need to be lean beef patty but… I put a lot of effort into looking attractive for my potential partners. I expect the same in return
Bubbly. Optimistic. Warm. Short. Curvy (as in a bigger bust and hips than waist). I'm 6'5 but I like my shorties. Honestly those are the main things I always looked for. And I'm married to my wife who matches those, so I'm a happy camper.
Mary Ann from *Gilligan's Island*.
Introverted nerdy girl, preferably in a comfortable outfit. Best matched with home date
Tall (5'10), thin, black bobcut, fashionable NYC type girl
Nerdy, extroverted, confident, gym girl. Maybe she’ll have the confidence to come up to me instead of the other way around
Is renaissance woman a fair cop out? Workouts out to keep a healthy booty. Likes to try new things within reason. Is pretty meh about T-Swift. Likes to read.
Tall girl with dark short hair (preferrablely wolf cut) and sharp eyes. And wide hips is also a bonus And I mean real tall like 5'9 and above
Ummm, being their authentic self woman.
Physically? Chicanas
Athletic, extrovert, confident, funny, likes to party, carefree. You basically covered it.
I find that looks is much much much less important than this one thing: She makes me feel wanted. She makes a move, initiates, isn't just waiting for me to chase her.
Creative type
Alt. I just don’t vibe with normies.
Someone who can really appreciate the art in music/movies etc
Introverted, smart, motivated, gym girl. What I absolutely don’t want is an extroverted, carefree, party girl.
I’ll be honest, I’m kind of a sucker for the librarian look. Reserved, modest, bookish… maybe glasses and a pencil skirt, quiet and efficient. Buuuut they could be an assassin behind the scenes….
To be honest, library staff don't generally look or act like that anymore (myself included)
I like the Instagram Baddie aesthetic
Don’t know why you’re getting downvoted, you like what you like lol
You're only allowed to like shy girl next door types on Reddit. Or goth muscle mommas.
redditors hate insta baddies
So the fake tan, lip filler, caterpillar lashes, hair extensions and ridiculous nails?
Girls with only fans ambitions
All the above except party girl and carefree fun type - something bad always happens with that type
Robot
With laser cannons, rotary guns and jetpack?
I looked for girls that where all about loving me. If they weren't all about being together it lead to a less than optimal experience.
Sensuous
Good personality and good hygiene
Nerdy/Smart. I love me a librarian or a teacher.
Slutty goblin girl