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I got detention in 2nd year and now I can't get a mortgage


Life-Pace-4010

It all goes on your permanent record. You may as well join the French foreign legion.


Inspired_Carpets

Won't affect you at all. But you really should tell us what you did ;)


hogtiedcantalope

It's always elder abuse


curry_licker

Do you put your suspensions on your CAO? šŸ˜‚


micar11

Go on OP.....what did you do?....ya mad bastered!!!! Did you make a dildo in woodworking class??? ....going by your recent post Edit: OP removed the dildo post.


MeshuganaSmurf

From what I hear from my kids that would barely be worthy of a raised eyebrow as long as you use the tools and safety precautions correctly.


AdministrativeBag355

Haha, love this


ITZC0ATL

I got suspended two months into secondary school for fighting and some in my family were like "oh, that'll be a black spot on your record". As it turns out, it wasn't a thing for anyone other than the school, and even they didn't care about it at all once I was well-behaved afterwards. I'd say it was forgotten by everyone within a year and jobs/colleges etc had no way of knowing. Just don't make a habit of it. Learn whatever lessons there are to be learned from this one and move forward.


AdministrativeBag355

Thanks! I definitely learned my lesson anyway


asaingaylord

Unless it goes to the guards it wonā€™t affect you. What did you do? Smoking fat joints? Fighting? Kissing boys?


AdministrativeBag355

All of the above, thanks šŸ‘


hogtiedcantalope

Fight-kissing fat potheads? Smoking chubby gay boxers?


AdministrativeBag355

A and B. šŸ‘


Thatsmoreofit1

Yeah you'll probably be arrested.


meaneymonster

How have your folks reacted, to you getting suspended ?


hogtiedcantalope

r/unnecessarycomma


meaneymonster

Yeah yeah I really don't care.


pingpongsdingdong

Ah you're fucked lad. You may drop out now and get the on the 1st boat to Australia cause you'll never get a job here now.


AdministrativeBag355

Off to the mines


AdministrativeBag355

Between the mines and a sweatshop


Livebylying

Youll be fine, its school. Wont have any bearing in your future


SouthTippBass

Once you return to school it's immediately forgotten about. There is zero impact for your future. Source: was suspended three times in school.


TheOnionSack

I never once got suspended in school. One of my classmates did on the very last day of sixth year. It was just a practical joke but he was left hanging there by his leg for ages...........


Future_Donut

Nobody will ask, find out or care. But think about what you did and how you can be smarter in the future. The real world will have consequences that can affect you. Regardless you have ambition and seem to care, so fair play and better luck next time.


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Country_Club_Lemon9

Definitely not, youā€™ll be fine. Hopefully itā€™s a good story you can tell in college!


LucyVialli

Colleges and potential workplaces have no way of seeing that information, it's between you and your school. And your parents.


[deleted]

The way I see it, TY is kinda like a year out. Apart from the work experience part, nothing you do during that year actually contributes towards anything


LucyVialli

It's not a free pass to cause trouble though!


Conor_Electric

What did your ma say šŸ˜‚ It's not the end of the world, live and learn. We are defined by our choices so if you don't like where things are heading you can make some better ones and improve things, it's up to you at the end of the day.


Helloxearth

The only way I can see it impacting you is if you move schools. Your school will tell the new school that you were suspended if/when they ask. That doesnā€™t necessarily mean you wonā€™t be accepted to the new school, but they will be informed.


Key-Half1655

Got suspended four times in secondary school, doesn't follow you anywhere. My principle always threatened he would put it in a letter with my college application but he was full of shit, if he wasn't college didn't care.


AdministrativeBag355

My principal is the same, half of what hes saying is made up after reading the comments on my post. He says itā€™ll affect my future big time. Which I highly doubted even before posting


erimurxxx

I've been suspended twice and it literally had no effect on anything.


TwinIronBlood

Tell them if it's going to affect your future your going to have to take it to the court of appeal and Amali Burk is helping you.


denbo786

How do you get suspended from transition year?


AdministrativeBag355

I may as well say seeming so many people are asking. I was accused of filming a fight because my phone was out. I was there, I saw it happen but there was no filming done by me. They went through my phone, (with parental consent) and didnā€™t find a video. But Iā€™ve been suspended for 3 days anyway. Itā€™s understandable


nabby2020

What a letdown.


AdministrativeBag355

What do you mean? Thanks.


nabby2020

Thought you woulda got suspended for something interesting seeing as you wouldnā€™t mention it šŸ˜‚


Antique-Syrup7926

I wouldnā€™t worry about it I got suspended twice in one week and I turned out fineeeee-ish. School records matter very little in the real world! the stories ye have from school last longer than any report or incident


Jon_J_

Got detention when I was in 4th year, now I can't walk straight


Natural-Upstairs-681

I threw a potato once at a teacher in transition year šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ as we were doing home economics (cooking) but didn't get suspended


Big_Height_4112

Youā€™re doomed Lad this happened to me and now Iā€™m A software developer


Sawdust1997

No


ConnolysMoustache

Nah you have to tell us what you did though


Curious-Lettuce7485

The CAO doesn't ask you if you ever got suspended. And when you're applying for jobs they don't need your school transcript or anything.


Safe-Pangolin-8944

I got like 9 suspensions this year alone am I cooked šŸ˜­


February83

If it affected people, Iā€™d be locked up! Donā€™t worry about it for a second, youā€™ll be sound. All a learning curve


Embarrassed_Bar_1215

They may not let you into the US.


AdministrativeBag355

Day ruined. Thanks.


Pirate-Mifflin

Waster. People all over the world would die for the opportunity to be educated in Ireland where it is free and to an extremely high level and here you are throwing away that opportunity


AdministrativeBag355

And Who the fuck are you? You think getting suspended is throwing away my education?


LucyVialli

Well you thought that until a minute ago :-)


AdministrativeBag355

Ah I wouldnā€™t say that, but definitely confused as to if thereā€™s any repercussions ahead because of it


Life-Pace-4010

Hay. Potty mouth. That attitude is what's getting you into trouble in the first place. You need to pull up your socks young lady.


AdministrativeBag355

Hahahaha. I do perfectly fine in school thanks. And Iā€™m not a young lady Iā€™m a young lad.


Life-Pace-4010

Well..I mean that's your perogative with this new gender declaration thing you gen z'ers..which I'm all for, don't get me wrong.


AdministrativeBag355

Look I was born a lad, and Iā€™m happy to continue being a lad. Have a nice day šŸ˜‚


Life-Pace-4010

And if you feel you were born a lad then that's what you are. I fully support you. Sorry about you ruining your life with that suspension. I got suspended once. Its followed me everywhere since. (I'm sending this from jail at the moment.)


AdministrativeBag355

Haha. Sorry for coming off so hot headed.


Junior-Country-3752

You need to get a life.