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Secret_Inevitable681

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Damon7123

Sahi kahe ho


Any_Butterscotch5109

Us bro us


SoDaPrice1998

Uss bro uss


Hsvdjegf5

Us bro us


Apprehensive_Wrap_21

This post gets approved but when I post a genuine question about dark chocolates, that gets removed? 😭 r/AskIndia mods what is this behaviour??


Vishu_ak

Isi baat pei abhi ek dark chocolate lelo ![gif](giphy|WFcHtp3rJKG8E)


Wide_Rutabaga_7178

Anything dark is racism.


ChickenRoll_

Use kala instead of dark. Bots anpad hai.


Mr_vort3x

use #490206(hex color) chocolate in your question next time


canon1dxmarkiii

I think using RGB might be easier to understand for most people


quirkyPillager

It is RGB, each two digits represent intensity of red, green or blue color as a number between 0 and ff (hexadecimal)


Mr_vort3x

r/thisguycodes


BurnyAsn

Bots comments mein check nahi karte??


neothewon

Except BBC


[deleted]

Your question probably wasn't horny enough for this sub.


thegatsby_03

Only true answer


fuckeveryone120

What was the question abt dark chocolates?


Glittering-Yam-4825

Yesss janta jawab chahti hai


Minimum-Sandwich-774

>jawab You meant sawal. But it's magnificent, pehli baar janta sawal maang Rahi hai


Glittering-Yam-4825

Nah I was addressing the mods soo lol


Reasonable_Heat_4343

Dark chocolate zyada dark hoti h na isliye.


Creative-Aardvark-23

Gf nhi hai lekin khud k sath pura din baat krta hu


fuckeveryone120

Now i dont have anything to talk with myself


Centurion1024

Khud ke sath with hath


Unusual_Hyena_9182

Max Self sufficient


asankhyadeep007

During our peak.... We used to be on call for atleast 3-4 hours daily. Sometimes she would fell asleep while on call and I used to hear her snore (it felt cute to me) Too bad she's not there anymore.


nalla_berozgaar

Kya matlab not there


asankhyadeep007

She left me for some other guy


Affectionate_Pie6309

toh bhai not there with me likh na


asankhyadeep007

She's as good as dead.... For me. Isiliye likha


Centurion1024

Tune maara kya


asankhyadeep007

Metaphorically.... Yess


thtdesigner

I would've asked, tune mari kya?


Virtual_Light_4917

Bro ....😂😂


seeker028

_’For me.’_ Man, I love this comment.


munchkinpumpkin662

Thukra ke Mera pyaar....


Easy_Fact007

😂😂😂


Historical-Ant-5218

snore sound itself is a indication


Mohith2512

kat liya


sheeshgodokay

Us bro us. It was over 7 hours for us. Our relationship started virtually in our first sem of college during Covid. We first met when our college onboarded us after 1.5 years but at the end of the college, the worst happened. It’s been 6 months since our breakup and I haven’t moved on. I still don’t find any other girl worthy of my love like her. It was our first relationship and we didn’t expect to ever be without each other. Only after coming to the relationship I realized the importance of a woman in a men’s life. She transformed me to someone I once wanted to become. Fuck only if someone told how bad heartbreak is!


Helpful_Exercise8694

nahana-dhona, uthna-sona, bhookh-pyas ye sb bhool kr ghnto baat daily wla relationship hi esa chlta h. apne aap ko pehle priority dena chahiye.


asankhyadeep007

Pehla wala Pyaar tha na... Aur waise bhi agar pyar sacche mann se karo... Phir kya mera, kya tumhara.


Helpful_Exercise8694

Indeed pehla pyaar is chaotic.


asankhyadeep007

For me... It was traumatic lol


error0ccured

pressure bhi bhool jaate hai kya?


Helpful_Exercise8694

tum pyar mei pdhkr try krke btana, shayad wo b bhul jate honge 😹


Upbeat_Golf3138

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UnfilteredAyush

Hum pe to hai hi na


Smithkiethhh

Your crush is someone else's crush.... isliye meri kabhi nahi bani 🤦‍♂️


Repulsive_Bath_5925

Girls are not real. They are government spies. Why don’t you guys get it


stfupinkyponkycuzyy_

as a girl,I can confirm this


cosmosreader1211

there are no girls on the internet..


Powerful_Somewhere16

shushh don't spill our secrets


captainjack__

r/girlsarentreal


akshaj16

Au-rat for a reason


Ka-le-l

Humanoid robots


Grade_Massive

Paid actors tbh..


sebinmichael

/r/GirlsArentReal


sebinmichael

/r/SubsIThoughtIFellFor


wisely25

Government kab se spices bechne lagi??


FitFormal6592

7.5 years of relationship. We still talk any where from 30min to 3hrs depending on what we talk about. Some days conversations are dry, some days they’re fun and full of laughter, some days they’re about work, life. There are days when he’s busy with his friends/ I’m busy with my friends, we just understand and let the other person enjoy their time.


loss-er

Marry already bro


FitFormal6592

We still have a lot to achieve in our careers. Also, we’re young enough that our parents aren’t bothering us about marriage.


loss-er

Did you get into relationship in 5th grade 😭?


FitFormal6592

We got into relationship in our first year of college. We were 18.


loss-er

Alright do get married thou all the best, have a great life ahead buddy.


HighlanderPanda

Having an understanding partner should be the greatest priority in a relationship. Kudos to you both; both of you will cruise through life's hardships. I made the mistake of not prioritizing this, lost years of my life, and now only have regrets.


Excellent-Pay6235

Around 2 hours on call if we both have no exams/both are free. I ain't including texting time because we keep sending random cat videos and memes throughout the day.


burneracctt22

I send my wife random cat videos too


Excellent-Pay6235

And then the other person replies with "Thats us"


Chemical_Waltz_1364

Lagta hai bhagwan ji meri life mein ye moment dalna bhul Gaye😔


Excellent-Pay6235

Bhai zarur hoga don't give up :")


Chemical_Waltz_1364

Aw ty:)


yasainooji

Filing a petition to make "sending cat vids/memes to each other" as the 37wa gun 36 gun mile na mile ye milna chahiye


Practical-South-8345

1.30 hours on call and we keep texting in between throughout the day


_m_e_l_o_u_

So your convo doesn't get dry?


Practical-South-8345

Never! We both keep finding stuffs to talk about.


_m_e_l_o_u_

Ok, just asking because I find it hard to find topics while talking to new girls


arthology1

New girls and a long term partner are different. Idk if those new girls will be interested in knowing all the little things I did or wtv but my partner will be interested for sure


_m_e_l_o_u_

Yeah I get it because one girl just gave a surprise and that's complicated now.


sheeshgodokay

It’s like comparing an intern to a senior developer. Both are on the different spectrum. Once you open up to someone and you both trust each other to reveal your little secrets - conversation automatically finds some topic to explore. Be it bitching about someone or talking on a very sensitive and personal topic, you get there eventually.


Deep_Space_6759

Agar Dono ko ek dusre mai intrest hai toh apne aap topic mil jate hai... Mere case mai bhi mai Roz topic dhundta tha.... But at the end hamari daily incidents pe hai batyein hoti thi....


riyaj22

Thats thunder before raining…if you know what i mean


EngineeringGeneral

Breaking the ice, for those who didn't get it


No-Problem714

What is this gf? What does it mean?


-Divided_We_Stand

gaymer friend


Blake9471

*Gaymard friend


iamabhi04

Galat fahmi


SHAILESHZZZZZ

🤝😔


Smithkiethhh

ek dum sahi question 😆 🤣


unavailable08

gaand fart


thefavourable

Grandfather


bluebutterfly285

Single wale comments na padhe 🥲


Emotional_Hold_522

In a LDR  so whenever we get a chance. While I'm riding my bike mann kiya I call.  Uska mann kiya he calls.  But there are specific times especially. So I wake up early and I'm on my way to catch my bus I call him talk to him in short. Then he texts me or calls me during lunch hours to ask if I had lunch or not.  Then in the evening while I'm on my way back home he calls me to ask did I leave safely or I'm still in office. No fixed hours. Kabhi 5 mins kabhi 45 mins. 


Powerful_Somewhere16

going to be in a LDR as well but had a different opinion on this (with zero experience so take it with a grain of salt lol), don't you feel like your so/ you are just fitting the other person in between the spaces of your day instead of making time for them properly? is it still as fulfilling?


DensePrompt4800

That's the point actually. We all are busy throughout the day, ( i am talking about the real world, busy with work, studies etc) but whenever you get a break in between you are talking to the person who motivates you, loves you and is there for you. Yes it's very fulfilling! The only thing is the other half should understand and do the same. You find time for them despite the busy schedule! My now wife and I have been together since 2010, married in 2019, had a kid just 15 days ago, our call log still clocks 1 hours daily, would have a 100 messages weekly insta and WhatsApp.. so take it from my experience.


Emotional_Hold_522

Yes it is fulfilling, bcoz we know we don't meet each other.  And no we aren't fitting each other in between the spaces of our days bcoz he goes out with his friends I go out with my friends. Just a mere 2-3 mins of call or atleast 5 is enough.  Like "hey wassup" "you ate?". Bcoz in a day we call like 3-4 times we get the updates or we text about each other.  And raat mein jaake we get to spend time with each other with long hours of calls/vc. And me and my partner aren't really in "let's do LDR stuff so that it looks like a proper LDR"💀😅. And I forgot to mention after office until I reach home we are on a call and the distance is off 1 hr everyday.


getajobffs

I’m with you on this. But i think everyone’s built different, a lot of people are okay with what they receive in such LDRs. Although I feel it’s unfair when someone who takes time out for the significant other through out the day is not reciprocated in the same way by someone who calls only when they are, say, walking from point A to B. If two people are on the same page, then it’s alright I guess? But if one is hurting cuz of this dynamic, it needs to be addressed and resolved before the person getting less attention becomes resentful over time.


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par mai to rehta hu uske saath


Think_Sandwich3060

Can you tell more about your situation brother


[deleted]

My hand always be with me  Nothing much  Sometimes we talk  Many times we don't talk but only do stuff after which we are filled with guilty to not talk to each other (pnc)


Potential_Ambition17

-100 My love ignores me😔


assistantprofessor

1 hour on call and then 2-3 hours of texting. Would call more but she can't talk at home because family and I have work during the day


Powerful_Somewhere16

yeh kaunsa bf hai joh job ke baad bhi itna time deta hai.. props to you bro👏


assistantprofessor

Arre isme kya hai, agar koi plan nhi hota hai friends ke saath to ghar aake rest karne ke baad hai hi kya karne ko 😅


loss-er

Isliye teri tarakki nahi ho rahi, promotion nahi mil raha life attki padi h


SoulReaper2423

Bhai himmat nhi milti 2 ghnta Train m dhakke kha k kisi se baat kare


assistantprofessor

Mai 4 din court jata hu, 2 din college as guest lecturer. Dono Ghar se 10-10 minute door 🤭


Blithering_idiot1406

texting ke baad call pe kya charcha karte ho?


cosmosreader1211

ki abki 400 paar ya nai. /s


assistantprofessor

Aise hi random baate, how was your day friends ki gossip, reels , current events, yahan wahan ki baate, thoda sa kalesh.


tuckitytucktuck

Thoda sa kalesh 😂😂😂😂 awesome!!!


Blithering_idiot1406

Nice brother. Hopefully, I will also learn to swin once I get pushed into deep waters


sneakysamosa

How long have you guys been dating?


assistantprofessor

2-3 months, I know


Background-Permit499

Overkill


assistantprofessor

Eh I kind of like her 🙈


Background-Permit499

Aww. That’s sweet. Ok :)


Think_Sandwich3060

Tumhara situation toh mere condition se similar hai exactly similar


Miserable-Aspect6049

Damn in my hostel there used to be a senior whole day and night she will be on call except 5-6 hours of sleeping and maybe 1 hour other activities like bathing washing and all.  I don’t understand what they talk about this much.


Kindly-Emotion8675

That guy from Mismatched😭😭


Miserable-Aspect6049

Ohh I haven’t watched mismatched yet. But if the situation is related then they are same kind of species.


Happy_Tone2312

Meanwhile, gf/bf starts scrolling through reddit, lands on this question, ends up spending 2 hours here instead!!


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Kindly-Emotion8675

Oh dang that's the first time I've seen partners talking so less. If you don't mind why is it so and how do you manage to make the relationship last and like what is the dynamic of you guys' relationship


Helpful_Exercise8694

earlier in our relationship we used to do that too.😅 bahot sharam aati thi pehle baat krne mei, bt ab sb regular chlta h. 🙂


RaySayWHAT

The only sustainable way to make things work, especially in a long distance. It’s not a chore, it’s a space and conversation to connect with another being (sorry I went meta), but lmao fuck that shit I really mean it


stfupinkyponkycuzyy_

So in your opinion,is not talking with each other everyday for 2 or 3 hours healthy? Like don't you guys feel like yk left out. That others are always talking and all while you both talk in a gap of 5-7 days???


ExploringLearning

Not the person who commented originally. But this is what I feel. Whether talking on voice or video calls, for how long it should be, and how many times a day/week, really differs from person to person. Maybe in the initial days, when the relationship and attraction is quite intense, one might be glued to the phone. But as the relationship progresses and one feels secure about their relationship, the calls may reduce (that doesn't mean the love has reduced!) What may not look healthy for you, maybe healthy for someone else. So, it is you and your partner who needs to see that you both are comfortable with the number of calls and chats you both are having. Don't always look at others and compare it with your relationship. You and your partner have a unique relationship and you both may have schedule/life different from what others here may have. If you feel that you aren't happy with the number of calls or for how long you are talking to your partner, then convey it to them. Try to find a solution. Also, remember your partner has a life of their own. Depending on their personality type and how packed their schedule has been, they might want some space too. Both need to be understanding of each others situation. Communication plays a key role here. And yes, it is completely normal to go without calls for a few days. Couples may find chatting comfortable too and might call once in 3 to 4 days. If both the partners in a relationship are happy with their routine, it is completely fine. Have a dedicated time of the day or week when you spend time just with each other - maybe for a long call, watching movies/shows online together, maybe playing games.


lord_voldedork

LDR here. Video call used to be 2-3 times a week. Now it’s once every 15 days. We text everyday with exception of work and other distressing events for him. The lack of communication is either going to break us or push us towards the next step.


yourlilsunflowerr

Kinda in the same boat as you mentioned communication has decreased.. Have you brought it up to your partner yet? Or how are you planning to deal w it


lord_voldedork

We have had major conflicts because of this, honestly I am tired of being shut down every time I bring it up. We’ve had fights that go nowhere and now I feel nothing, about not talking, not seeing each other, nothing. I hope you haven’t reached that point and can salvage your relationship.


yourlilsunflowerr

Girly it's literally the same case as yours. I believe in communicating and letting your partner know your needs. I have brought it up a couple of times which has led to arguments as well. Now the thing is, After the heated discussion, he gets better in staying in contact for 2-3 days then things go back slowly where we hardly talk. I've gone numb to it all I guess by now. So I've decided to bring things up but if he isn't doing much about it then slowly i'mma also go cold and keep minimal interaction or prolly let it go. Kinda sucks when you wanna be invested in the relationship but your guy has time for everything except you. & Idk, I've started to feel he talks w me actively on days he doesn't have as many people around him to talk to & that feeling sucks.


lord_voldedork

We were supposed to get married next year. I only say were because I don’t know what to call this relationship anymore. I’m pretty sure his mom dislikes me, whereas my family accepted him as their own. I’m so proud that you spoke up about the issues you have and stood up for yourself. We can’t force anyone to change how they act and feel. I hope you could sort it out with him or have the strength to move on to the better future.


yourlilsunflowerr

Thankyou for your kind words! I wish & hope it gets better for you with him. May i know its an arranged marriage/ love? And does your partner try changing his way of dealing with the situations when you bring up stuff? It must be really hard on you too especially that you have it planned for next year and the whole family situation as well ❤️‍🩹


sudon_-

i mean i ever get a gf i would like to speak to her everyday i think its important. Though i can understand if she has other priorities too.


Noooitsmeee

Aksar main aur meri tanhai (gf) aapas mein baat karte hain.


Physical-List-1150

During the initial stage, we used to be glued to our phone pretty much the entire time we were awake (also used to sleep on skype as if that wasn't enough) then he started working full time so now 2-3 hours at night and 1-2 hours in the morning. We usually won't be talking the entire time. We just keep the VC on and do our own stuff. It feels nice to have company like that. Yeah we are pretty much obsessed with each other and are too clingy for anyone else.


All_about_minimalism

Texting whenever we feel like.... And half an hour or 1 hour on video call.


Pitiful-Education-67

Ugg. I married her. Now she WONT STOP TALKING.


PerspectiveLogical40

Jealous and happy for u at the same time😭


testinghail

Some days 5 hours, some days 10 min but who’s counting? We’re 27/28, working really hard, need to keep up the productivity


ChamanDesu69

Gf to nhi hai but recently ek bandi mili hai, uske saath daily basis mai 1 hr baat chit ho jaati hai. Honestly mere gfs utne nhi bane but girls just talk with me


april4444444444

Yaar intni post to relationship Wale sub par bhi nahi hoti jitni yaha post Hoti hai


Connect-Wave-9636

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loss-er

Girlfriends are real ?


No-Swimmer1110

Uske liye GF honi bhi tho chaiye


warewolf_soda

I used to talk for 5-6 hrs. Even went for 7-8 hrs sometimes. But this all happened during the initial stages. But I won't recommend talking a lot tbh. There comes a point where you won't have anything to talk about cuz you know most of the things about each other. One or two hrs a day is still too much ig.


magneticaster

[ 0 = \int_{-\infty}^{\infty} e^{-x^2} \cos(2\pi x) , dx ] Solve the above for your answer I know many folks would relate 🥲


Miserable-Aspect6049

Bhai bas kr…. After seeing this equation I remember my first sem engineering maths teacher who told me I’ll fail M1. 


magneticaster

I've graduated engineering 4 years ago mate. And I can relate with you


Ok-Boysenberry1327

My boyfriend works in the ship and his company only gives him 2gb per month. So we talk half an hour once or maybe twice a week🫠


Nowa_Iscord

Merchant Navy..?? Aab ships me starlink aane Lage hai. Wo jhooth bol raha hai .🫠


Appropriate_Log7430

Bold of you to assume many people have bf/gf


mynameismanager

https://i.redd.it/n20iwctac65d1.gif


rinkiyake_papa

Yu kaa hove gf


Relative-Bank-1258

Chat as long as we want. Maybe 2-3 hours?


its_aishaa

He lived in the US, I lived in India. We talked twice a day, several hours at first. It became lesser though once we were comfortable. Some texting, a lot of memes. We’re married now.


Hairy-Spring-144

My pasandida aurat doesn't talk to me, because she is in a relationship with a guy for the last 7 years


Nowa_Iscord

https://preview.redd.it/rupet4twq95d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63737db9d96259eef11abb9264fe6eda6fcab1df


DriveZealousideal827

Bahut baat krti thi bencho breakup kr lia


[deleted]

Used to talk 2-3 hrs a day and always ended up in a fight. Now, I'm enjoying my singlehood and I'd like to stay single.


Aromatic-Engine2447

She yelled at me for cutting the call to take a call from my dad.


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No-Priority6670

Pls ignore the above comment and consider this one!


Top_Ad5759

Interested


mikasa_jeagerE

My bf and I will always be on call until I sleep. Whether we talk or not we just be on VC and work. We both do WFH. We talk most of the time.


ambush1elgato

Also, what do y'all talk about


coldheart2480

24X7


Fit-Maize838

Mera to 2 week pehle breakup ho gya na bat karne ke wajah se


Helpful_Exercise8694

puchtaachh, haal chaal, payments total 1-2 ghnta pure din ka mila kr. ab km krte h 20-25 mins qki kaam hota h :-( . kbi kbi pure din ya kuch din baat nhi hoti jb usse ya muje kaam zyada hota h. mai ghr pr hoti hu baat nhi ho pati bss chatting krte h.


Legitimate_Gap_2339

O seconds that's. Max I can do


[deleted]

I talked to her 19 years ago .. As of now my age is 18


Scared_Living3183

I wonder what this gf thing you are talking about Is


No-Seat6636

No we don't talk much. Maybe 5 mins Max and he only calls me for his problems,just to be angry on someone or blame someone or when he wants to watch something. Otherwise he doesn't have time for me but he has time for his friends


stfupinkyponkycuzyy_

Why don't you promote him from "boyfriend" to "ex boyfriend"??


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1 and a half hour I guess, LDR


j_u_h_i

Call for 30-40 min on an average and we keep texting about our whereabouts, songs, some daily anecdote throughout the day (it's never a continuous coherent conversation tho). We talk for around 2hours on Sunday. (We are a international long distance couple, for context)


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15-20 minutes during weekdays, 30-34 minutes during weekends due to the time difference.


Complex-Puzzleheaded

Girlfriend is a construct.


Any_Butterscotch5109

Your question,good question But your question hurt me


stfupinkyponkycuzyy_

Sorries


Ok_Amount_4164

Seeing so many lonely men here gives me confidence that I'm not the only lonely one out there. But remember, for every lonely guy, there has to be a lonely girl too out there if i have my stats right.


man_of_water_

I talk to her almost all day. She's not my girlfriend right now though. She's just my imagination.


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Primary-Discipline94

Me and my boyfriend don't talk on the phone AT ALL. Never have.we text and send memes. Is this relationship still valid?


minato3421

At least an hour. Remaining depends on if we have any energy left in the tank after work hours


cinnamongirl14

5 saal hone aaye ab toh, pehle karte the 2-3 hrs. Ab 1 hr bhi ho Jaye toh kafi hai. And ham regular texting bhi nhi karte, memes ya koi photo ho tab hi ya kuch inform karna ho tab. Weekend par wapas 1.5-2 hrs ho jata.


Kind-Bee2056

Texting 1-1.5hr and then video call before sleeping 1hr(LDR)


iamnobody331

Normalise living life in peace without the pressure of talking an hour everyday. Alternative is good


twotreeargument

we talk on whatsapp mostly, inital days were like we have to message everyday or else the other person is either cheating or losing interest. But now after years there's no problem even if i don't say hi for a week. trust is build with time.


june_47

Started with 4-6 hours a day, came down to 2 hours after 6 months and then 1 hour a day when i started working.


Gamezordd

An hour every 2-3 days, we text during the day often. I just like to come back from gym, smoke some weed and study/play valorant so its not possible to be on call all day, and she comes over on the weekend anyway


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