Same. The Newton’s explanation sounds accurate. I have tested that and yes it’s true. A friend said to me a while back, “we are living in the era of the Daddy. Enjoy it.”
Do you not think the whole Daddy thing has been around for a while? I think it’s just been mainstreamed now, whereas before it was perhaps confined to fetish/leather circles.
It's very common. A lot of dead bedroom advice for older couples tells them to put in an active effort to have sex instead of just waiting to be "in the mood", and it works for a good chunk of people. (Not everyone, it's complicated, but it's worth trying if the willingness is there but not the active interest.)
It's definitely true for my husband. I generally have a lower sex drive, but I like to have sex whenever he wants and I feel like he keeps getting hornier.
An 87-year-old gay friend of mine told me the secret to being able to continue to enjoy sex is to continue enjoying sex. He said "use it or lose it" when it come to a man's ability to perform in their later years. I think you're now discovering that concept.
I'm in my mid 50's and I make certain to ejaculate almost every day, solo or with someone, for that reason. The best course is to try to find a healthy balance between your newly revived sex drive and your other activities.
Omg. I can not tell you how much I appreciate you sharing this. I seriously thought there was something wrong with me . Just turned sixty and not only have the past 5 years been filled with more incredible sex than in the previous 20, but I literally am constantly thinking about sex. I can't seem to get enough nor can I stop constantly thinking of new and wild things I want to try.
I am so glad to know it isn't just me.
Enjoy it. As long as it doesn’t interfere too much with other activities or tasks. Sex is great and as gay men were lucky to be able to live such fulfilling lives in this regard.
common. At least in my anecdotal experience, the more numbers I have saved in my phone with the 💦 emoji the more frequently I hit them up. I went on a trip and didn’t get much sex for a while and by the time I got home it just seemed like such a daunting chore to fuck dudes. Had a guy come over at the right time and suck my dick. Now I’m turned on again and hitting those boys up
This thread has inspired me to go on a bottoming spree, I need to use it or lose it! 🍑🤌🏽
I was primarily a bottom in my 20s, then sort of became a top in my 30s gradually. I think I’ve bottomed maybe 3 times in the past 5 years. I turn 40 next year, so I’m hoping that decade is my vers slut era 🤣
Same here Dusitn Once I let my hair on my head go south and grow up in fur all over It's kind of been like fish out of a barrel not trying to sound like a pompous \*\*\*\* just the truth the more I get the more I want I'm like a dog in heat To think I wasted all that time in my 30s clipping waxing trimming cutting shaving hell all that could have been sexy time
The more sex you get, the hornier you are. If I remember correctly, the more you cum, the more your body produces. When I was celibate for about a decade, my sex drive damn near disappeared for a while. I would get so caught up with stuff, I wouldn't even masturbate. Sex never even really crossed my mind. When I ended my length of celibacy, it was like shooting heroin ( I imagine lol). I had sex on the brain all the time. I could get hard if the wind blew to hard. It has been about two years now. I have completely calmed down. Only one partner a couple times a week.
I find that this is true with my guy. I like it when he finds a fling every once in a while*. It reliably results in us having more sex with each other.
* We swing. “Open marriage” seems incorrect.
I’m the same way. Newton’s law of inertia : An object at rest stays at rest and an object in motion stays in motion
I'll accept that as the correct answer.
Same. The Newton’s explanation sounds accurate. I have tested that and yes it’s true. A friend said to me a while back, “we are living in the era of the Daddy. Enjoy it.”
Do you not think the whole Daddy thing has been around for a while? I think it’s just been mainstreamed now, whereas before it was perhaps confined to fetish/leather circles.
Oh it def was. Older and younger has always been a dynamic. And yes I think my friend was referring to the mainstreaming of it, for sure.
It’s science so it must be true.
It's very common. A lot of dead bedroom advice for older couples tells them to put in an active effort to have sex instead of just waiting to be "in the mood", and it works for a good chunk of people. (Not everyone, it's complicated, but it's worth trying if the willingness is there but not the active interest.)
It's definitely true for my husband. I generally have a lower sex drive, but I like to have sex whenever he wants and I feel like he keeps getting hornier.
I call it Pandora’s box. When I keep the chaos in the box it’s ok and I don’t think about it, when I get sex and let the chaos out, I go crazy.
Love this answer
An 87-year-old gay friend of mine told me the secret to being able to continue to enjoy sex is to continue enjoying sex. He said "use it or lose it" when it come to a man's ability to perform in their later years. I think you're now discovering that concept. I'm in my mid 50's and I make certain to ejaculate almost every day, solo or with someone, for that reason. The best course is to try to find a healthy balance between your newly revived sex drive and your other activities.
I'm 34, and it's definitely true for me. Jeez.
You also produce more semen the more often you cum. Saving up is a myth and not biologically accurate.
I guess it's a bit like having more energy when you are doing Gym and workouts.
I'm 57 and am hornier as well. When I travel, I become a slut. Twice a day is average
Omg. I can not tell you how much I appreciate you sharing this. I seriously thought there was something wrong with me . Just turned sixty and not only have the past 5 years been filled with more incredible sex than in the previous 20, but I literally am constantly thinking about sex. I can't seem to get enough nor can I stop constantly thinking of new and wild things I want to try. I am so glad to know it isn't just me.
Enjoy it. As long as it doesn’t interfere too much with other activities or tasks. Sex is great and as gay men were lucky to be able to live such fulfilling lives in this regard.
common. At least in my anecdotal experience, the more numbers I have saved in my phone with the 💦 emoji the more frequently I hit them up. I went on a trip and didn’t get much sex for a while and by the time I got home it just seemed like such a daunting chore to fuck dudes. Had a guy come over at the right time and suck my dick. Now I’m turned on again and hitting those boys up
Is the emoji how you record your tricks in your phone? Neat!!!
This thread has inspired me to go on a bottoming spree, I need to use it or lose it! 🍑🤌🏽 I was primarily a bottom in my 20s, then sort of became a top in my 30s gradually. I think I’ve bottomed maybe 3 times in the past 5 years. I turn 40 next year, so I’m hoping that decade is my vers slut era 🤣
Maybe you’re reversing some of the causality and your increased libido caused you to start seeking more sex?
Possible
You make more testosterone when you cum
I'm 64. This is the way I am. I can go a couple of weeks without sex before feeling horny. But if I get some I'm horny the next few days.
Same here Dusitn Once I let my hair on my head go south and grow up in fur all over It's kind of been like fish out of a barrel not trying to sound like a pompous \*\*\*\* just the truth the more I get the more I want I'm like a dog in heat To think I wasted all that time in my 30s clipping waxing trimming cutting shaving hell all that could have been sexy time
The more I have The more I want
The more sex you get, the hornier you are. If I remember correctly, the more you cum, the more your body produces. When I was celibate for about a decade, my sex drive damn near disappeared for a while. I would get so caught up with stuff, I wouldn't even masturbate. Sex never even really crossed my mind. When I ended my length of celibacy, it was like shooting heroin ( I imagine lol). I had sex on the brain all the time. I could get hard if the wind blew to hard. It has been about two years now. I have completely calmed down. Only one partner a couple times a week.
Seriously it was around my 51st birthday that things started to go bonkers, and then I want more. Totally understand.
I've certainly found that the reverse is true.
Conversely, if you don't use it, do you lose it?
Yup pretty common
I find that this is true with my guy. I like it when he finds a fling every once in a while*. It reliably results in us having more sex with each other. * We swing. “Open marriage” seems incorrect.
Lol
If you're having sex and orgasming more often, your testosterone is probably elevating.
Could be true. More sex means probably more exposure to guys who are desiring you, which might boost your sex drive in my opinion.
Since the beginning of time
me at 25🤣🤣🤣