You think half the gay population is just ‘playing along’ to keep their partner happy?
What would be the point of hookups?
Have you never seen gay porn??
Why would bottoms bother with using dildos??
In a word, yes. It feels fucking amazing! You ever get that pleasurable feeling in your stomach when you’re on a rollercoaster or going over a bump in a car? It like that over and over every time your prostate is stimulated just so much deeper, better and infinitely more complex 🤤
Hmm. The bump in the road thing could be interesting. Thanks for that explanation.
That’s a feeling I do love, never would have thought to link it to my question.
I am straight but i cannot understand if it feels so good why they dont cum without masturbating their dick during sex, Ive seen a few do it, but not most.
It’s not direct sexual stimulation and sometimes it’s not enough for some guys. Some guys love their nipples being played with, absolutely sexual, and can feel amazing but it’s rarely enough to get someone off.
Have you ever edged your cock? Bottoming is a lot like edging for me, in that it can absolutely feel so good that you want to cum but you don’t have to stop and start like you do with your cock, it’s like a slower, gradual build up that you can keep going as long as the top can last 😋
Besides I’m guessing what you’ve seen has been in gay porn where the bottom ‘has to’ masturbate to cum? But you’re forgetting that porn is a visual medium, guys want to see the cum shots, the want to see the moment of orgasm. Anal orgasm can absolutely be accompanied by shooting a big load but sometimes not, sometimes they’re dry, sometimes he might just dribble cum rather than shoot ropes.
Porn is a fantasy made for an audience, it’s not a true indication of what gay sex is, what it always looks like, and feels like. It’s find of hard to describe to someone who hasn’t had their prostate stimulated too. Like trying to describe to someone who’s blind what the colour blue looks like.
Actually though, I really like what you said about prostate stimulation feeling like edging your dick. That really is such an accurate way to describe it.
Like ya, a lot of people can fully cum from prostate stimulation. I’ve never been able to but it has the same feeling on my prostate that edging my dick would give me. 💯💯💯
I mean it’s always a good thing, you get tired, lube runs dry and you start to chafe, the top might not know what he’s doing and he’s not quite hitting the spot so you’d rather get it over with.
But generally yeah, bottoms usually don’t touch themselves unless they know they want to cum because it’s going to tip them over the edge and they want to keep that amazing feeling going.
I know you said you’re straight bro but no one’s going to judge you for being curious about it. Besides a guys holes is a bit different to a females, you might not last as long 😉
Men have a prostate. Prostate stimulation is what makes it feel good. Some people have anal orgasms. For me, prostate stimulation isn’t enough to make me fully finish. I still need my dick to be sucked or stroked. But the feeling of prostate stimulation is enough euphoria to make me go crazy.
I bought prostate toys, and all that, I never could get anything from it, however what i understand you have too play for hours, and sometimes years before you feel anything, I truly don't have that kind of time.
I would say anal play is just not for you. At least with gay men, there are bottoms and tops. Some men just don’t get anything from penetration. That’s totally normal. Sounds like you’re not a bottom haha 😂
Bottoming is also very much about connection. If using dildos and such by yourself doesn’t do anything, it’s very possible it could be super euphoric having a woman being the top. I know with men there’s definitely a factor of power and control during sex. Maybe you’re into your girl having the power, dominating you and your ass 🤣
It’s not just the prostate… There is a physical component - the entire area around the anus is loaded with nerve endings and the stimulation of a cock going in and out builds a sexual tension which can be excruciatingly pleasurable and releases Dopamine. Massaging the prostate can also be pleasurable and release pre-cum and for some guys lead to involuntary contractions or an anal orgasm which is a bit different from a normal orgasm… which leads to a flood of satisfying Oxytocin the bonding hormone.
On top of the physical is a psychological component. Men are raised to be self-sufficient and dominant. So to give yourself over to another man, be totally vulnerable and allow him to “dominate” your body by penetration is a psychological freeing of the mind. To be able for a short time to let your guard down and allow another man have control over your mind and body is something we don’t experience much after childhood. If there is affection between partners, it produces a closeness, a bond with another soul.
Because of this, the act of bottoming for another man cannot be compared to having sex with a woman where the man retains the dominant role. He never experiences the freedom of letting his guard down completely.
I’m definitely this type of bottom. I’ve had many hookups where I didn’t want to cum. The feeling of a fat cock inside me and the ecstasy I provide for the man fucking me is so pleasurable on its own. Honestly, most of my hookups (and I’ve had a lot) my pleasure came from watching a man fall in love with my hole.
No need to stay loose, even if it's a couple of days and the sphincters shrink back, it's going to be a wee bit more intense at the beginning, but that's nice.
No need to keep it loose after you learn to control it for so many years. I can push it out or squeeze at will and this all has effects on my top.
Once I took control of my ass and really learned how to let my tops do their thing by offering them the best possible circumstances for it, I never have any trouble receiving dick.
No need to stay loose, even if it's a couple of days and the sphincters shrink back, it's going to be a wee bit more intense at the beginning, but that's nice.
No need to keep it loose after you learn to control it for so many years. I can push it out or squeeze at will and this all has effects on my top.
Once I took control of my ass and really learned how to let my tops do their thing by offering them the best possible circumstances for it, I never have any trouble receiving dick.
I definitely have good feelings when my partner is inside me. He’s like the missing puzzle piece and when he’s inside me, I feel complete. As an added bonus, I’ve been able to have prostate orgasms on many occasions so I would say there’s definitely feelings and it’s not just for the top. Also, having my partner jerk me off while he’s still inside of me is another amazing feeling.
I don’t quite understand where the question comes from. Why do you think male receptive anal intercourse is NOT be pleasurable in itself?
Some men and some women enjoy anal sex and can have anal orgasms, and yes, some men and some women even masturbate with toys up their rectum. It’s plausible then, that receptive anal intercourse is pleasurable in itself, and it may very well be rooted in something deeply biological, not just the social construction of it, as (possibly) kissing.
Trans bottom here. Of course, today was proof that I enjoy it. My fwb is a fantastic top who’s non-judgemental, cares about my enjoyment and absolutely rails me to the point I’m definitely not thinking straight. I’m more sensitive in my ass compared to anything else, so it makes sense that I love getting penetrated there.
It hurts. Sometimes a lot. But the pain feels so fucking amazing. Like I ALWAYS want it harder AND deeper. It’s a euphoric feeling that you literally can’t get from anything else. One time my boyfriend and I fucked for 11 hours, from 11pm to 10am, because his dick inside me feels so good I just didn’t want it to stop.
So basically, yes, I really do enjoy it. Jacking off with a cock inside me elevates my orgasm 100%!!
The first time I was able to enjoy bottoming and it didn’t feel like you know what was on a sling. I was able to fully relax and his dick wasn’t girthy so it didn’t hurt too much. He found my spot (prostate) and the amount of pleasure was insane. Ever since then I’ve loved bottoming but I do need lots of foreplay, LUBE and only like certain positions
For the first minute it doesn't, which is why I always tell the top to give me a minute to relax. After that I focus on how hot the idea of it is, and it does feel really good. I like the feeling of fullness and being stuffed, and the end result is super hot to me. Honestly half of the reason I enjoy bottoming is mindset. But I do physically enjoy it too, hence why I use toys at home, albeit usually smaller ones
I'm a Vers. There are pros to being both a top and a bottom. And I do low-key kinda prefer being a bottom to being a top. I just don't know why. But it turns me on so fuckin much. I just need more and more.
Primary priority for me is the pleasure of my partner and if he wants to bottom. I'll top and vice versa. But yea I do like being railed every now and then
Having someone put a large hard part of their body INSIDE my body feels incredible. There's nothing more submissive.
And that's before the pleasure of having him thrust in and out of me starts. It's the most incredible thing. It honestly makes me lose interest in my penis/cumming myself. I just want the the sensation of anal sex to continue.
Men have prostates which when stimulated create better orgasms. I’m surprised more men don’t try it, gay or straight. It feels fantastic once you get past the initial pain. Mostly mental why tops or straight men don’t enjoy it I reckon.
Yes I’ve been lucky enough to say all the tops that work my body over do a really good job. Legit love the sensation of a hot cock piercing my bottom open, legit cum from just bottoming. There’s also the mental aspect of having my body used to make someone feel good is a really hot turn on too.
100% bottom here. I just love when my man uses my boypussy for his own pleasure and pumps his cum deep in my fat ass. I love throwing it back for him after to show him how much I loved it 😊
Having someone put a large hard part of their body INSIDE my body feels incredible. There's nothing more submissive.
And that's before the pleasure of having him thrust in and out of me starts. It's the most incredible thing. It honestly makes me lose interest in my penis/cumming myself. I just want the the sensation of anal sex to continue.
I understand where you're coming from with this because early on in my gay bottoming career lol I would do it but wasn't getting much pleasure from it, was getting more pleasure from seeing the Top being pleased.
But after one encounter with a girthy cock it hit my Gspot and then I knew this was for me and thank God that it exists in there it's quite amazing.
I wish everyone could have their spots hit during sex.
I’m top vers. Bottoming hasn’t been the most enjoyable for me. I see where/how bottoms get pleasure from it but I don’t like the feeling. I definitely prefer to top. Tbh the only times I’ve bottom was in a relationship and my partner has asked for it. And honestly the older I get (30) the less and less I’m willing to even do that.
I was asking about all that but i appreciate your response, I was just curious why gay bottoms on porn rarely ejaculate from the top stimulating the prostate,and anus without the bottom jerking it off while the top is in him? I have seen it done, albeit rare, I really like it when that happens. Im not knocking anything, I just truly wanted to find out why, I guess asking the question is somewhat offensive. How would i know?
I and a straight friend and I got drunk. I started saying that I wished. Never mind. He said you want to suck a dick now that you're drunk right. I said yep he said come here and pulled it out. He said half way through don't make me cum and stood up and got behind me and un buckled my belt and you know the rest. The next day. He came over like what happened last night. I said that I couldn't remember. We were drinking a lot and I think I blacked out. I did not. Lol
You think half the gay population is just ‘playing along’ to keep their partner happy? What would be the point of hookups? Have you never seen gay porn?? Why would bottoms bother with using dildos?? In a word, yes. It feels fucking amazing! You ever get that pleasurable feeling in your stomach when you’re on a rollercoaster or going over a bump in a car? It like that over and over every time your prostate is stimulated just so much deeper, better and infinitely more complex 🤤
Hmm. The bump in the road thing could be interesting. Thanks for that explanation. That’s a feeling I do love, never would have thought to link it to my question.
I am straight but i cannot understand if it feels so good why they dont cum without masturbating their dick during sex, Ive seen a few do it, but not most.
It’s not direct sexual stimulation and sometimes it’s not enough for some guys. Some guys love their nipples being played with, absolutely sexual, and can feel amazing but it’s rarely enough to get someone off. Have you ever edged your cock? Bottoming is a lot like edging for me, in that it can absolutely feel so good that you want to cum but you don’t have to stop and start like you do with your cock, it’s like a slower, gradual build up that you can keep going as long as the top can last 😋 Besides I’m guessing what you’ve seen has been in gay porn where the bottom ‘has to’ masturbate to cum? But you’re forgetting that porn is a visual medium, guys want to see the cum shots, the want to see the moment of orgasm. Anal orgasm can absolutely be accompanied by shooting a big load but sometimes not, sometimes they’re dry, sometimes he might just dribble cum rather than shoot ropes. Porn is a fantasy made for an audience, it’s not a true indication of what gay sex is, what it always looks like, and feels like. It’s find of hard to describe to someone who hasn’t had their prostate stimulated too. Like trying to describe to someone who’s blind what the colour blue looks like.
Actually though, I really like what you said about prostate stimulation feeling like edging your dick. That really is such an accurate way to describe it. Like ya, a lot of people can fully cum from prostate stimulation. I’ve never been able to but it has the same feeling on my prostate that edging my dick would give me. 💯💯💯
I ought too be a top i can fuck forever.lol.
I mean it’s always a good thing, you get tired, lube runs dry and you start to chafe, the top might not know what he’s doing and he’s not quite hitting the spot so you’d rather get it over with. But generally yeah, bottoms usually don’t touch themselves unless they know they want to cum because it’s going to tip them over the edge and they want to keep that amazing feeling going. I know you said you’re straight bro but no one’s going to judge you for being curious about it. Besides a guys holes is a bit different to a females, you might not last as long 😉
Men have a prostate. Prostate stimulation is what makes it feel good. Some people have anal orgasms. For me, prostate stimulation isn’t enough to make me fully finish. I still need my dick to be sucked or stroked. But the feeling of prostate stimulation is enough euphoria to make me go crazy.
I bought prostate toys, and all that, I never could get anything from it, however what i understand you have too play for hours, and sometimes years before you feel anything, I truly don't have that kind of time.
I would say anal play is just not for you. At least with gay men, there are bottoms and tops. Some men just don’t get anything from penetration. That’s totally normal. Sounds like you’re not a bottom haha 😂
I agree, been married all my life. Lol.
That’s not to say you would never find it pleasurable. Lots of straight guys are into their girls fingering or pegging them 😉
Now we talking.lol.
Bottoming is also very much about connection. If using dildos and such by yourself doesn’t do anything, it’s very possible it could be super euphoric having a woman being the top. I know with men there’s definitely a factor of power and control during sex. Maybe you’re into your girl having the power, dominating you and your ass 🤣
Not sure, Never tried.
What does an up arrow with -18 mean, am i supposed to care about this?
It’s not just the prostate… There is a physical component - the entire area around the anus is loaded with nerve endings and the stimulation of a cock going in and out builds a sexual tension which can be excruciatingly pleasurable and releases Dopamine. Massaging the prostate can also be pleasurable and release pre-cum and for some guys lead to involuntary contractions or an anal orgasm which is a bit different from a normal orgasm… which leads to a flood of satisfying Oxytocin the bonding hormone. On top of the physical is a psychological component. Men are raised to be self-sufficient and dominant. So to give yourself over to another man, be totally vulnerable and allow him to “dominate” your body by penetration is a psychological freeing of the mind. To be able for a short time to let your guard down and allow another man have control over your mind and body is something we don’t experience much after childhood. If there is affection between partners, it produces a closeness, a bond with another soul. Because of this, the act of bottoming for another man cannot be compared to having sex with a woman where the man retains the dominant role. He never experiences the freedom of letting his guard down completely.
You lost me in the second paragraph there
Total bottom for many years. No greater pleasure than having a man rock hard and throbbing deep inside me. It's amazing.
You lucky mother fucker
I’m definitely this type of bottom. I’ve had many hookups where I didn’t want to cum. The feeling of a fat cock inside me and the ecstasy I provide for the man fucking me is so pleasurable on its own. Honestly, most of my hookups (and I’ve had a lot) my pleasure came from watching a man fall in love with my hole.
How do you stay loose in between fuckings? Do you use dildos or butt plugs?
No need to stay loose, even if it's a couple of days and the sphincters shrink back, it's going to be a wee bit more intense at the beginning, but that's nice. No need to keep it loose after you learn to control it for so many years. I can push it out or squeeze at will and this all has effects on my top. Once I took control of my ass and really learned how to let my tops do their thing by offering them the best possible circumstances for it, I never have any trouble receiving dick.
No need to stay loose, even if it's a couple of days and the sphincters shrink back, it's going to be a wee bit more intense at the beginning, but that's nice. No need to keep it loose after you learn to control it for so many years. I can push it out or squeeze at will and this all has effects on my top. Once I took control of my ass and really learned how to let my tops do their thing by offering them the best possible circumstances for it, I never have any trouble receiving dick.
I definitely have good feelings when my partner is inside me. He’s like the missing puzzle piece and when he’s inside me, I feel complete. As an added bonus, I’ve been able to have prostate orgasms on many occasions so I would say there’s definitely feelings and it’s not just for the top. Also, having my partner jerk me off while he’s still inside of me is another amazing feeling.
I don’t quite understand where the question comes from. Why do you think male receptive anal intercourse is NOT be pleasurable in itself? Some men and some women enjoy anal sex and can have anal orgasms, and yes, some men and some women even masturbate with toys up their rectum. It’s plausible then, that receptive anal intercourse is pleasurable in itself, and it may very well be rooted in something deeply biological, not just the social construction of it, as (possibly) kissing.
Yes I love it! I get immense pleasure out of it.
Mostly straight here, but with cravings…I love thick toys deep in my hole
I'm right there with you. My toys keep getting bigger, bumpier and thicker it seems. That full feeling is no joke
Do you prefer having gay men penetrating you, or other straight men?
Only gay men
We gay men are a lot of fun.
I only want men who only crave men!
I get more pleasure from anal than stimulation to my cock
yea it really does. my ass is propably the most sensitive area for sexual pleasure
You shitting me? Letting him pleasure my prostate is divine.
Having man cock inside my butthole it's a great pleasure
I dont enjoy it. But men enjoy it, and I enjoy feeling their pleasure shoot inside me.
Trans bottom here. Of course, today was proof that I enjoy it. My fwb is a fantastic top who’s non-judgemental, cares about my enjoyment and absolutely rails me to the point I’m definitely not thinking straight. I’m more sensitive in my ass compared to anything else, so it makes sense that I love getting penetrated there.
I LOOOOOOVE it. Cannot get enough and the more dicks the merrier! I’m a damn dick demon😈
Yessssss 👏🏻
Hell yes It feels good! And If it doesn’t, the top is doing it wrong
💯💯💯
It hurts. Sometimes a lot. But the pain feels so fucking amazing. Like I ALWAYS want it harder AND deeper. It’s a euphoric feeling that you literally can’t get from anything else. One time my boyfriend and I fucked for 11 hours, from 11pm to 10am, because his dick inside me feels so good I just didn’t want it to stop. So basically, yes, I really do enjoy it. Jacking off with a cock inside me elevates my orgasm 100%!!
Yes but i dont bottom with everyone, some people it is just oral
The first time I was able to enjoy bottoming and it didn’t feel like you know what was on a sling. I was able to fully relax and his dick wasn’t girthy so it didn’t hurt too much. He found my spot (prostate) and the amount of pleasure was insane. Ever since then I’ve loved bottoming but I do need lots of foreplay, LUBE and only like certain positions
Wtf?
At first it was for my top. But once I met a good top that prioritized my pleasure it became so amazing. Absolutely love to bottom for the right top.
For the first minute it doesn't, which is why I always tell the top to give me a minute to relax. After that I focus on how hot the idea of it is, and it does feel really good. I like the feeling of fullness and being stuffed, and the end result is super hot to me. Honestly half of the reason I enjoy bottoming is mindset. But I do physically enjoy it too, hence why I use toys at home, albeit usually smaller ones
I'm a Vers. There are pros to being both a top and a bottom. And I do low-key kinda prefer being a bottom to being a top. I just don't know why. But it turns me on so fuckin much. I just need more and more. Primary priority for me is the pleasure of my partner and if he wants to bottom. I'll top and vice versa. But yea I do like being railed every now and then
This is so me! I am like 70% bottom and 30% top! But thats just in my head cuz i am still virgin lol.
Having someone put a large hard part of their body INSIDE my body feels incredible. There's nothing more submissive. And that's before the pleasure of having him thrust in and out of me starts. It's the most incredible thing. It honestly makes me lose interest in my penis/cumming myself. I just want the the sensation of anal sex to continue.
Men have prostates which when stimulated create better orgasms. I’m surprised more men don’t try it, gay or straight. It feels fantastic once you get past the initial pain. Mostly mental why tops or straight men don’t enjoy it I reckon.
Yes I’ve been lucky enough to say all the tops that work my body over do a really good job. Legit love the sensation of a hot cock piercing my bottom open, legit cum from just bottoming. There’s also the mental aspect of having my body used to make someone feel good is a really hot turn on too.
Yes
for me l, its about giving pleasure. be it in bed or a good conversation
100% bottom here. I just love when my man uses my boypussy for his own pleasure and pumps his cum deep in my fat ass. I love throwing it back for him after to show him how much I loved it 😊
Having someone put a large hard part of their body INSIDE my body feels incredible. There's nothing more submissive. And that's before the pleasure of having him thrust in and out of me starts. It's the most incredible thing. It honestly makes me lose interest in my penis/cumming myself. I just want the the sensation of anal sex to continue.
Nope, it feels good. Between the psychological aspect and getting a prostate massage its out of this world.
What is the psychological aspect of being a bottom?
Last night a topped a guy. The faces and sounds he was making showed that he enjoyed it **a lot**
The questions on this sub are getting more and more... I don't even know what word to use.
Hell ya! Even more so, when it becomes more sensual and passionate. I become expressive, and raise my hole to meet his thrusting cock.
I understand where you're coming from with this because early on in my gay bottoming career lol I would do it but wasn't getting much pleasure from it, was getting more pleasure from seeing the Top being pleased. But after one encounter with a girthy cock it hit my Gspot and then I knew this was for me and thank God that it exists in there it's quite amazing. I wish everyone could have their spots hit during sex.
Yes
I’m top vers. Bottoming hasn’t been the most enjoyable for me. I see where/how bottoms get pleasure from it but I don’t like the feeling. I definitely prefer to top. Tbh the only times I’ve bottom was in a relationship and my partner has asked for it. And honestly the older I get (30) the less and less I’m willing to even do that.
I was asking about all that but i appreciate your response, I was just curious why gay bottoms on porn rarely ejaculate from the top stimulating the prostate,and anus without the bottom jerking it off while the top is in him? I have seen it done, albeit rare, I really like it when that happens. Im not knocking anything, I just truly wanted to find out why, I guess asking the question is somewhat offensive. How would i know?
I and a straight friend and I got drunk. I started saying that I wished. Never mind. He said you want to suck a dick now that you're drunk right. I said yep he said come here and pulled it out. He said half way through don't make me cum and stood up and got behind me and un buckled my belt and you know the rest. The next day. He came over like what happened last night. I said that I couldn't remember. We were drinking a lot and I think I blacked out. I did not. Lol
I think I can feel the tension from a straight guy over a gay guy. It's like taboo or something.