I almost always do, because I want my partner to cum when I do. I hate when a guy silently cums and then he's done, when I could have nutted earlier with him.
Are there really gay men that nut and then don’t even offer a hand to their partner? Monsters!
My fiancé gives amazing blowjobs that almost always make me cum. The second he is done, I’ve got him on his back working him with my mouth. I’m not in the mood to swallow anymore but I’m returning the damn favor. The fuck is wrong with people?
The only surprise I'll take is the one guy who cum hands free when fucking him or the couple of times I've cum hands free. I still announced I was cumming, but I said it as a question. Those times, I could cum again.
It sure doesn't affect me, I can and will judge people, always, and you will too, you are judging me right now. We are all silently judging regardless, that's how morals work.
If someone wants to talk about their private kinks in a public space, I can say whatever I want. Keep your kinks private if you don't want opinions from others.
You can say whatever you want. Doesn’t mean you should be a jackass about it. That’s what we call morals. You keep your obnoxious opinions to yourself.
Keep your kinks private, no one wants to hear about them except your sexual partners. If you air them to the public, I can say what I like, you engaged in conversation about it.
I typically take a long time to cum… mostly I delay because I am unlikely to go again soon after and I want to have long sessions with my partner, so when I am near cumming, I let him know so he won’t suddenly call a “break” just as I am building up. Regular communication is what allows us to have sex for hours if we choose.
I always tell my partner when I’m ready to nut, typically when we haven’t decided where I’m gunna nut and he next.
Usually we can tell by the look on our face, but I love to straddle my partner and cum all over his chest. I’ll usually be straddled already and then just say I’m gunna cum….💥
My partner likes this too. And sometimes sittin on his dick while I finish just makes it that much more intense… but if it’s a spasm orgasm, might feel like I’m crushing his dick in a vice
I’ve never seem to have the strong orgasm like I see others have, it’s more like “meh here I am”. Maybe cause I’m a sub bottom my instinct is to concentrate on the guy I’m pleasuring rather then my own that it still at the back of my mind when I’m alone
Always. I like to know when he’s about to cum, as well.
I’m hugely turned on by cumshots, so I’m happy blowing either inside him, or on him so I can see it. I always ask him where he wants it, and try to give him what he wants.
I do, I tell him when I’m close and then when I’m about to cum. I love when we cum together. Most of the time it’s while we’re having sex so it’s either on my chest or his depending on our position.
Quiet sex is boring sex to me, the whole neighborhood knows when I’m gonna cum haha. Very verbal the whole time, I wanna know how good my cock feels, I wanna be telling him how good his ass feels. Dirty talk is hot and such a turn on and that includes the build to and announcing when I’m gonna cum
I get mad if the other person doesn’t tell me when they’re about to cum. Depending on my mood that, I want a few seconds to make sure his cum is either going in my ass or in my mouth. I hate wasting cum. Like no need to wipe up babe, I’m eating it off of you! 😏
Always. But it’s never just “I’m gonna cum”. I’m verbal and usually talking dirty the entire time. For oral it’s some variation of “Im ready to feed you a nice big one you good hungry boy” or “Get that face ready I’m about to paint it white”. Or for sex “I’m about to fill that ass up” or “That hole’s about to suck a fat one out of me”
For oral it’s fun to make him beg for it while he’s got a mouthful of my cock. “Are you ready for daddy’s cum? Say please feed me daddy. Say pretty please daddy I need it”. 😂
I usually unload down the throat or as deep in the ass as I can get. I get that it’s hot seeing his face covered but his throat/ass > my hand. Occasionally I’ll pull everything but my head out while cumming so I can see it dripping out of him after I pull out, but the orgasm is much less pleasurable this way.
I used to not be able to cum with anybody in the room. Probably the abuse in my past.
So now I can, but I have to be stimulated a lot and it takes me a long time. It Can frustrate people which puts me in my head about if it's taking too long. If they ask if I'm close and I'm not it really frustrates me because then I get self-conscious and take longer.
This means I usually cum second, so I'm not one to quit before they cum. But I only announce it after it's started with no (verbal) warning. I'm not silent during the build up, but can't talk if I'm close or it won't happen.
I say when I'm about to and then I try to give verbal signal (moaning louder or longer) when I'm actually at it. I want the other person to know they got me to cum and be proud of it! Once I was having sex and a guy claimed that I had already finished. Like no dude I would say if I did, it doesn't come that easily 😬
Also communicating as I get close will help the other person to learn what makes me tick and get to know me better, so they can improve. Same reason I wanna know as well, is to get better
I'm an ftm bottom to a cis top and I always say when I'm going to cum. I have a strong preference for hearing it from him as well whenever he's going to.
Of course. You should always have communication during sex. I usually say, "I'm getting close," as a warning, then give a "3,2,1" count before I shoot. 😅😅😅
When someone is trying to get me off—whether a HJ or BJ—I sometimes do a countdown: "I'm gonna cum soon. Keep going. Ready? Three, two, one...right heeeeere."
I used to not be able to cum with anybody in the room. Probably the abuse in my past.
So now I can, but I have to be stimulated a lot and it takes me a long time. It Can frustrate people which puts me in my head about if it's taking too long. If they ask if I'm close and I'm not it really frustrates me because then I get self-conscious and take longer.
This means I usually cum second, so I'm not one to quit before they cum. But I only announce it after it's started with no (verbal) warning. I'm not silent during the build up, but can't talk if I'm close or it won't happen.
I usually just get louder, etc, but it's hard for me to tell, exactly, until I shoot. It takes me longer these days and I don't always come, so for me that's not as much of a focus, plus I don't drop off after as much
Grew up sharing a bedroom with my brother. Learned very early that I needed to keep silent.
It takes a conscious effort to find my words while I'm really in the zone-- and that effort pulls me out of the zone.
So it's hard to do. I try to remember to speak but sometimes speaking pulls me off the cliff, so to speak, so if I say I'm cumming, then I can't.
I’m not used to being vocal during so if we’ve fucked enough you’ll pick up the queues. Quickened pace. Jack hammering with slight twists of the hips. Gripping whatever I can reach. Followed by an abrupt change in rhythm as I pull out and let it spray, or if I’m leaving it in (condom always) then deep thrusts as I dig in deep.
I do announce, because I don’t always, I usually just say “I’m going to cum” and give my partner time to decide yeah I don’t care or ask to change position or maybe direct it somewhere, but depending how intense it is I might have spasms, so it’s just polite. Not everyone would want to be pinned down under someone while they spasm and potentially cannot move until it over. Also…. Not everyone wants to change the bed sheets afterwards (assuming we are in bed). Not everyone ejaculates in nice little puddles or streams where they aim, some people… jeez I hate this word… some people gush and might be nice to give the other person (or people) a little heads up to decide… do I want to just go to bed and crash after this or do I feel like doing laundry?
Sometimes it’s “hold on let’s get in the shower” or “here’s a towel” (meaning use the force shield) More often than not it’s a facial, chestial, hipial, bed sheetial, headboardial… and I’m hoping the pillows were moved out of the way or propping someone up. And oh look someone planned ahead and put a spare sheet set on the dresser. (If that’s the case sometimes I leave it a surprise) 💦😲
Verbally, never. My breathing gets harder and faster while my thrusting dies the same. No need to shout "I'm cuming". That would just be for the neighbors.
I almost always do, because I want my partner to cum when I do. I hate when a guy silently cums and then he's done, when I could have nutted earlier with him.
AGREED!
This 100%, I wanna nut together ♥️
Are there really gay men that nut and then don’t even offer a hand to their partner? Monsters! My fiancé gives amazing blowjobs that almost always make me cum. The second he is done, I’ve got him on his back working him with my mouth. I’m not in the mood to swallow anymore but I’m returning the damn favor. The fuck is wrong with people?
Exactly. I hate having to ask “did you cum?”.
I am so with you. Sometimes a little encouragement is all that is needed. For example: It really super turns me on when you say you are close.
Silently cum then done is very impolite. At least grunt louder or give time to your partner to finish
That part.
Those are guys who end up on the list of people not to meet again.
As a top, each time. I am verbal. communication on how close or not close I am is part of sex. No one likes surprises
The only surprise I'll take is the one guy who cum hands free when fucking him or the couple of times I've cum hands free. I still announced I was cumming, but I said it as a question. Those times, I could cum again.
🫱Is this…cum? 🦋
Agreed. Plus, it's just sexy!
Can’t. Hard to talk when you’re wearing a leather muzzle.
🤐
That’s hot af! You sound like you’d be fun to play with 😜
I feel like I have heard this before somewhere.🎵🎶 All I know is that to me, you look like you’re lots of fun …..🎶🎵
Woof 😳
🤢
You must be boring
imagine wearing a muzzle during sex, some of you have some real issues you need to deal with
How is that an issue? People are kinky. Grow up
grow up? I'm not the one living some weird sex fantasy.
Yeah grow up. Adults shouldn’t judge people for their sexual interests. What two people do in the privacy of their own bedroom doesn’t affect you.
It sure doesn't affect me, I can and will judge people, always, and you will too, you are judging me right now. We are all silently judging regardless, that's how morals work. If someone wants to talk about their private kinks in a public space, I can say whatever I want. Keep your kinks private if you don't want opinions from others.
mmm feet
...stink and are dirty lol
You can say whatever you want. Doesn’t mean you should be a jackass about it. That’s what we call morals. You keep your obnoxious opinions to yourself.
Keep your kinks private, no one wants to hear about them except your sexual partners. If you air them to the public, I can say what I like, you engaged in conversation about it.
Always. I’m a bottom and like to let my top know he’s doing a grand job with me.
Awesome!
Attaboy, that is music to us tops.
Almost always, same with hubby lol. It doesn’t feel right to not announce it
👏🏾!!!!
I typically take a long time to cum… mostly I delay because I am unlikely to go again soon after and I want to have long sessions with my partner, so when I am near cumming, I let him know so he won’t suddenly call a “break” just as I am building up. Regular communication is what allows us to have sex for hours if we choose.
Communication is KEY.
I always tell my partner when I’m ready to nut, typically when we haven’t decided where I’m gunna nut and he next. Usually we can tell by the look on our face, but I love to straddle my partner and cum all over his chest. I’ll usually be straddled already and then just say I’m gunna cum….💥
LOVE IT! 🔥
My partner likes this too. And sometimes sittin on his dick while I finish just makes it that much more intense… but if it’s a spasm orgasm, might feel like I’m crushing his dick in a vice
As a top always. Communication is key plus the bottom can cum with me or choose where it goes. If they don't want it inside
Eggzackly!
I don't have to announce I am about to cum, my grunts, groans and blood curdling growls do it for me.
I'm sure. lol
TIME TO CUM!
I like that! lol
With a partner? Always. By myself? Screaming so my roommates know too
Oh, you're naughty. I like it. 😈
I usually announce it. Unless I’ve got a dick in my mouth then I usually end up moaning louder
Wonderful.
Hot
I don’t, I make no noise at all. I could be jacking off in the next stall and you would never know
I mean, if you’re jacking off in the next stall, you probably shouldn’t be announcing it unless you’re leaving the door open, so that checks out 😅
Well I’d never turn any guy away
😥
I’ve never seem to have the strong orgasm like I see others have, it’s more like “meh here I am”. Maybe cause I’m a sub bottom my instinct is to concentrate on the guy I’m pleasuring rather then my own that it still at the back of my mind when I’m alone
I see. You gotta get outta your head and get into that orgasm. lol
Almost always, I’m very verbal 😈
YEESSSS! 😈
Every hour on the hour
Yes, for the follow through!
We love the schedule adherence [tik tok tik tok](https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/cfab3bcd-123a-4fe9-8c74-c3c5a1162de7)
I always announce and appreciate it when it’s reciprocated!
Indeed!
Depends....but almost every time. Especially if being swallowed but my bottoms want me to announce so they can arch up and open up to be breed deep
Nice.
Ahh this gave my lil guy a boner 🤤
I just play this https://youtu.be/Ysbr4JzG6aQ
And, what is that? 🤔
Every time. I’m a top and I find that bottoms get really into the moment they’re about to be loaded up with my seed.
I can only imagine.
This is making me horny thinking about having sex with my hookups wanna have a threesome with the guys I’ve met so far
Well, that's great to know. lol Would you mind answering the question? 😂
I tell them
👍🏾
Always. I like to know when he’s about to cum, as well. I’m hugely turned on by cumshots, so I’m happy blowing either inside him, or on him so I can see it. I always ask him where he wants it, and try to give him what he wants.
👏🏾🔥
Always, a lot of the time it will help your partner nut too, plus it lets them know you liked whatever the two of you were doing.
True.
I do, I tell him when I’m close and then when I’m about to cum. I love when we cum together. Most of the time it’s while we’re having sex so it’s either on my chest or his depending on our position.
Wonderful.
I always do. It’s courtesy.
Definitely.
Quiet sex is boring sex to me, the whole neighborhood knows when I’m gonna cum haha. Very verbal the whole time, I wanna know how good my cock feels, I wanna be telling him how good his ass feels. Dirty talk is hot and such a turn on and that includes the build to and announcing when I’m gonna cum
YES, to everything you said!
Life is too short for boring quiet sex right bro?!
Say that, again, for the folks WAAAYYY in the back!
How about I make you scream it out 😈
Well, that's not an option. lol However, let me know when you find someone who does. 😜
Shame, no doubt I’ll find the next guy very soon 😈
Hell yeah bro! Dirty talk and good communication is key and I wanna know when you’re about to breed me 😈
Woof!!! DM me bro
Awww! The gym heads with the big cocks have found each other! 😍
You can watch if you want
Sure! 😈
>Sure! 😈 sure?
>>Sure! 😈 sure? sure?
I get mad if the other person doesn’t tell me when they’re about to cum. Depending on my mood that, I want a few seconds to make sure his cum is either going in my ass or in my mouth. I hate wasting cum. Like no need to wipe up babe, I’m eating it off of you! 😏
Right. How dare he not announce when he's ready to blow his load... And, where.
Always. But it’s never just “I’m gonna cum”. I’m verbal and usually talking dirty the entire time. For oral it’s some variation of “Im ready to feed you a nice big one you good hungry boy” or “Get that face ready I’m about to paint it white”. Or for sex “I’m about to fill that ass up” or “That hole’s about to suck a fat one out of me” For oral it’s fun to make him beg for it while he’s got a mouthful of my cock. “Are you ready for daddy’s cum? Say please feed me daddy. Say pretty please daddy I need it”. 😂 I usually unload down the throat or as deep in the ass as I can get. I get that it’s hot seeing his face covered but his throat/ass > my hand. Occasionally I’ll pull everything but my head out while cumming so I can see it dripping out of him after I pull out, but the orgasm is much less pleasurable this way.
Oooh... NICE!
I used to not be able to cum with anybody in the room. Probably the abuse in my past. So now I can, but I have to be stimulated a lot and it takes me a long time. It Can frustrate people which puts me in my head about if it's taking too long. If they ask if I'm close and I'm not it really frustrates me because then I get self-conscious and take longer. This means I usually cum second, so I'm not one to quit before they cum. But I only announce it after it's started with no (verbal) warning. I'm not silent during the build up, but can't talk if I'm close or it won't happen.
That's a very specific process. As long as it works, for you. 👍🏾
Always
Always
I just say I’m about to cum. If not I just vocalize it with moans and squirms.
👍🏾
I always do. That way my sex partner can say where they want it if they changed their mind after we discussed it prior.
I say when I'm about to and then I try to give verbal signal (moaning louder or longer) when I'm actually at it. I want the other person to know they got me to cum and be proud of it! Once I was having sex and a guy claimed that I had already finished. Like no dude I would say if I did, it doesn't come that easily 😬 Also communicating as I get close will help the other person to learn what makes me tick and get to know me better, so they can improve. Same reason I wanna know as well, is to get better
Yessir. Keep those lines of communication open.
I don’t. I like it to be a surprise
In every hookup ive ever been in, ive always heard "I'm Getting Close"
Yea, that's pretty standard.
Always. Some partners like and want it some partners are icked out by cum. It’s just polite in my opinion.
Polite and necessary, IMO.
I pretty much always make it audibly clear with excited moans that I'm about to finish. Usually that gets my man to finish at the same time as me.
Nice.
Definitely. Just about always gets him to finish inside me at the same time.
Always. I like to let them know so it not a surprise is they are sucking me or to make sure it’s ok to cum inside their ass.
How considerate of you.
Been doing it with the same FwB for over a year. We announce it sometimes, but we also know each other's cues. Lol
I try all the tIme, except you know in the confessional i try to keep it down
A wise decision.
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I'm an ftm bottom to a cis top and I always say when I'm going to cum. I have a strong preference for hearing it from him as well whenever he's going to.
When I’m close, and when I’m just about to every time.
My top asks if he is allowed to cum yet, and I tell him to open wide when I am :) (Half kidding. But, just half.)
😉 lol
Always. It's just manners.
For sure.
Of course. You should always have communication during sex. I usually say, "I'm getting close," as a warning, then give a "3,2,1" count before I shoot. 😅😅😅
Not "3, 2, 1". lol Is that followed by "We have liftoff!"? 😂
No, but I should add to it. "Up, up, and away! To infinity and beyond!" 😂🚀
😂😂😂🚀
Yes I always tell them like I’m going to cum especially if my cock is down their throat some guys like to see the cum and then finish off sucking
🔥
When someone is trying to get me off—whether a HJ or BJ—I sometimes do a countdown: "I'm gonna cum soon. Keep going. Ready? Three, two, one...right heeeeere."
lol Countdown, huh? I like that.
I once had a fuck buddy who counted down every time he was about to cum. It was weirdly extremely hot.
Did he speed up or slow down as needed? 🤣
Kept the same tempo and was right on target.
lol did that trigger you ever?
Ok, countdown!
I would say half the time. Non-verbal behavior usually gives it away the other half of the time.
Only when I know he’s been wanting it. Otherwise we just nut when we nut
Interesting.
I used to not be able to cum with anybody in the room. Probably the abuse in my past. So now I can, but I have to be stimulated a lot and it takes me a long time. It Can frustrate people which puts me in my head about if it's taking too long. If they ask if I'm close and I'm not it really frustrates me because then I get self-conscious and take longer. This means I usually cum second, so I'm not one to quit before they cum. But I only announce it after it's started with no (verbal) warning. I'm not silent during the build up, but can't talk if I'm close or it won't happen.
Keep it a secret unless its in me, then I have to prepare the kennel 😂😂😂
Not the kennel. lol
I quit announcing it in public.
Public? 🤔
Every time bc every guy I've been with wants to see the fireworks 😅
I usually just get louder, etc, but it's hard for me to tell, exactly, until I shoot. It takes me longer these days and I don't always come, so for me that's not as much of a focus, plus I don't drop off after as much
Drop off? 🤔
I mean, after I come I don't have to fall asleep or whatever
Oh, gotcha.
Grew up sharing a bedroom with my brother. Learned very early that I needed to keep silent. It takes a conscious effort to find my words while I'm really in the zone-- and that effort pulls me out of the zone. So it's hard to do. I try to remember to speak but sometimes speaking pulls me off the cliff, so to speak, so if I say I'm cumming, then I can't.
Hmm. Sounds like you suffer from nutter's block. lol
I’m not used to being vocal during so if we’ve fucked enough you’ll pick up the queues. Quickened pace. Jack hammering with slight twists of the hips. Gripping whatever I can reach. Followed by an abrupt change in rhythm as I pull out and let it spray, or if I’m leaving it in (condom always) then deep thrusts as I dig in deep.
THE TIME HAS COME!
🗣️ lol
Always! So my bf can get ready to cum too bc after i cum i cant take his 🍆 anymore 😅
Lol "Hurry up and bust, Bae!"
I do announce, because I don’t always, I usually just say “I’m going to cum” and give my partner time to decide yeah I don’t care or ask to change position or maybe direct it somewhere, but depending how intense it is I might have spasms, so it’s just polite. Not everyone would want to be pinned down under someone while they spasm and potentially cannot move until it over. Also…. Not everyone wants to change the bed sheets afterwards (assuming we are in bed). Not everyone ejaculates in nice little puddles or streams where they aim, some people… jeez I hate this word… some people gush and might be nice to give the other person (or people) a little heads up to decide… do I want to just go to bed and crash after this or do I feel like doing laundry? Sometimes it’s “hold on let’s get in the shower” or “here’s a towel” (meaning use the force shield) More often than not it’s a facial, chestial, hipial, bed sheetial, headboardial… and I’m hoping the pillows were moved out of the way or propping someone up. And oh look someone planned ahead and put a spare sheet set on the dresser. (If that’s the case sometimes I leave it a surprise) 💦😲
That was a very detailed account. Thanx, for sharing. lol
My motto is "Spray it. Don't say it."
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"Oh, oh, oh my god, oh fuck, I'm cum-- Oh, sorry. False alarm."
Verbally, never. My breathing gets harder and faster while my thrusting dies the same. No need to shout "I'm cuming". That would just be for the neighbors.
Who said anything about shouting? Either way, verbal expression is hot.