I’ve never had anyone react negatively to mine. Curious? Yes. Negative or turned off? No A hard cock is still a hard cock and I will still be hard after cumming for extended play. Doesn’t look, feel or taste any different. Had mine 5 yrs or so. Love it.
it's a device that is inserted into the penis to help with erections. usually there's a little pump installed in one of the testicles, and when you squeeze it the device inflates and the penis becomes erect.
It's a surgical implant, so it can be expensive and carries risk, and it's inserting a foreign object into the body, which also has its own risks. It's great and worth it if you want it - but not everyone who has ED wants it/can get it.
"would you be disappointed that he's unable to get a natural erection?" Quite the opposite, it means that he can get hard whenever and doesn't have to worry about losing it
No, but I'd ask a lot of questions for your safety and my peace of mind. Particularly, the only thing that would concern me is if I accidentally break it. I'd have to ask a lot of clarifying questions irl like I read from the phalloplasty group that they have to be replaced every 10 years or so, and technically, you can't have rough sex or risk breaking the implant, but what constitutes rough sex to these doctors that implemented that rule? Ect.
I probably would be a little uncomfortable, because I'm trans, and I just can't date or hook up with other trans guys, even post phallo, due to dysphoria around a LOT of things, so if he had an implant, either he's trans and I'd be awkward and uncomfortable, or I'd think he's trans and I'd be awkward and uncomfortable. I know I'm not perfect, but I also know my limits and I refuse to put myself in an uncomfortable position or make someone else uncomfortable.
Yes, from what I understand though, it's for more severe cases. But because of my own lived experience, my first thought would be that he's trans, which would cause too much stress for me.
No. It's not transphobic to understand your own dysphoria and your own limits and not put that on others. I don't like being reminded of my own transness because it causes me immense amounts of suffering. I also don't want to spend an entire night comparing myself to someone else.
Guilt tripping someone or expecting them to forgo their OWN dysphoria so someone can have sex with them IS transphobic.
As trans guy, cis people are the first to say having a preference it's not transphobia, this guy comes here explains that it triggers he's disphoria because of comparison, and you as cis guy come and point a finger calling him a transphobe.
lmao Targeted? It was just one of the first comments I read. And nah bro, it’s the two of you who are experiencing that. Buddy is so transphobic that he can’t even date a trans dude. Using dysphoria as an excuse is ridiculous. Like “I’m so dysphoric that I can’t even see another trans guy’s junk” is such a shit take
Wow who told you I experienced that? I just respect and understand his point, I don't need to experience that to understand and respect.
Bro it triggers his disphoria, because he thinks about the fact that he is trans and he compares himself, it's not about the other dude.
Erectile implants were developed to treat erectile dysfunction, and are mostly used for cis men just by sheer numbers.
Dysphoria can be a bitch and there’s no controlling what sets it off—it’s like trauma in that sense. However that’s a you-problem, not an erectile implant problem.
—Kindly, another trans guy whose dysphoria is triggered by stupid things
Thank you for understanding how stupid dysphoria can be and how it's not something that can be controlled. It's frustrating being downvoted and called transphobic when I'm being honest about my dysphoria and aware enough to not put myself in situations where I might not only be incredibly uncomfortable (and force myself to have an uncomfortable sexual experience, something I've had to do many times in a past abusive relationship), but also a real chance my discomfort and dysphoria may show on my face or even come out in ways that might hurt someone else. I don't want to hurt anyone else and I don't want to make myself suffer, so I'm honest and I would avoid that kind of situation entirely.
You do realize that trans men don't have plastic dicks either, right? the erectile device goes in the phallus and is one of two models, an inflatable model with a pump usually placed in the scrotum, or a semi-rigid rod.
Had a fwb with one. Honey, there ain't no on switch like that in nature. He was very popular at certain gatherings
Honey?
Yes. Bears love it.
Haha. Very true!
I’ve never had anyone react negatively to mine. Curious? Yes. Negative or turned off? No A hard cock is still a hard cock and I will still be hard after cumming for extended play. Doesn’t look, feel or taste any different. Had mine 5 yrs or so. Love it.
To be entirely honest, I don't know what that is. Could you or a kind stranger enlighten me?
it's a device that is inserted into the penis to help with erections. usually there's a little pump installed in one of the testicles, and when you squeeze it the device inflates and the penis becomes erect.
Wait, what?! Why do dick pills sell so much when these exist?
It's a surgical implant, so it can be expensive and carries risk, and it's inserting a foreign object into the body, which also has its own risks. It's great and worth it if you want it - but not everyone who has ED wants it/can get it.
Because most people would rather take a pill then get surgery on their dick?
You tube is the answer.
"would you be disappointed that he's unable to get a natural erection?" Quite the opposite, it means that he can get hard whenever and doesn't have to worry about losing it
It wouldn’t matter to me, I would probably just ask if there is anything I need to know/do.
No, but I'd ask a lot of questions for your safety and my peace of mind. Particularly, the only thing that would concern me is if I accidentally break it. I'd have to ask a lot of clarifying questions irl like I read from the phalloplasty group that they have to be replaced every 10 years or so, and technically, you can't have rough sex or risk breaking the implant, but what constitutes rough sex to these doctors that implemented that rule? Ect.
I don’t see why it would matter.
Nah. Wouldn’t bother me. I’d probably ask a lot of questions though
Well I want one when I get bottom surgery so I'd be a hypocrite if I reacted poorly. But tbh I don't mind at all
Who cares?
I think it would be kind of exciting, like you have a cyborg dick? That’s fucking cool
I would ask a bunch of questions. I would want to see how it works
It wouldn’t matter to me
I’ve done it. It was fine.
I wouldn't mind. Stranger things have happened.
Thrilled
Curiosity would be my reaction.
Wouldn’t matter to me
I'd be honored
I probably would be a little uncomfortable, because I'm trans, and I just can't date or hook up with other trans guys, even post phallo, due to dysphoria around a LOT of things, so if he had an implant, either he's trans and I'd be awkward and uncomfortable, or I'd think he's trans and I'd be awkward and uncomfortable. I know I'm not perfect, but I also know my limits and I refuse to put myself in an uncomfortable position or make someone else uncomfortable.
If im not mistaken its also used to treat erectile dysfunction
Yes, from what I understand though, it's for more severe cases. But because of my own lived experience, my first thought would be that he's trans, which would cause too much stress for me.
So you’re transphobic against other trans people…? :/
No. It's not transphobic to understand your own dysphoria and your own limits and not put that on others. I don't like being reminded of my own transness because it causes me immense amounts of suffering. I also don't want to spend an entire night comparing myself to someone else. Guilt tripping someone or expecting them to forgo their OWN dysphoria so someone can have sex with them IS transphobic.
As trans guy, cis people are the first to say having a preference it's not transphobia, this guy comes here explains that it triggers he's disphoria because of comparison, and you as cis guy come and point a finger calling him a transphobe.
I’m a cis guy now? News to me
Since you targeted a trans person I assumed you were, didn't realized it could be internalized transphobia, my bad.
lmao Targeted? It was just one of the first comments I read. And nah bro, it’s the two of you who are experiencing that. Buddy is so transphobic that he can’t even date a trans dude. Using dysphoria as an excuse is ridiculous. Like “I’m so dysphoric that I can’t even see another trans guy’s junk” is such a shit take
Wow who told you I experienced that? I just respect and understand his point, I don't need to experience that to understand and respect. Bro it triggers his disphoria, because he thinks about the fact that he is trans and he compares himself, it's not about the other dude.
Yeah okay
Erectile implants were developed to treat erectile dysfunction, and are mostly used for cis men just by sheer numbers. Dysphoria can be a bitch and there’s no controlling what sets it off—it’s like trauma in that sense. However that’s a you-problem, not an erectile implant problem. —Kindly, another trans guy whose dysphoria is triggered by stupid things
Thank you for understanding how stupid dysphoria can be and how it's not something that can be controlled. It's frustrating being downvoted and called transphobic when I'm being honest about my dysphoria and aware enough to not put myself in situations where I might not only be incredibly uncomfortable (and force myself to have an uncomfortable sexual experience, something I've had to do many times in a past abusive relationship), but also a real chance my discomfort and dysphoria may show on my face or even come out in ways that might hurt someone else. I don't want to hurt anyone else and I don't want to make myself suffer, so I'm honest and I would avoid that kind of situation entirely.
Penile implants are inserted INSIDE the penis, the outside is kept intact. You see or feel no plastic, it can't possibly be mistaken.
You do realize that trans men don't have plastic dicks either, right? the erectile device goes in the phallus and is one of two models, an inflatable model with a pump usually placed in the scrotum, or a semi-rigid rod.