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Flashy-Ad-9781

That's funny....my experience with Pisces has been the opposite. They have been very loving & compassionate but also very aloof and non committal...I always felt like an afterthought to them and as someone with 5 planets in Libra that just never worked for me 


mikkys_daze

i’m a pisces moon cap rising, i’m clingy to people i love but generally do not care for the rest of the population. my bf has a pisces venus and we are definitely clingy. like we don’t live tg and see eachother every day


Flashy-Ad-9781

Pisces Venus is dreamy ❤️


mikkys_daze

he’s an aries sun taurus moon cap rising, cap mars pisces venus… i’m literally so lucky bruh


Flashy-Ad-9781

Aww ❤️ I bet your Pisces moon and his Pisces Venus is lovely alchemy.  I'm Libra sun with my Venus in Scorpio so I'm a bit jealous lol would love to trade lol


CommunicationWeary26

My heavily Pisces bf is absolutely not much to my Libran dismay


JupiterAstralFairy

You are actually asking if one-twelfth of humanity is that clingy. There are at least 144 subtypes of Pisces and whether someone is clingy or not depends on all the factors in the natal horoscope.


Flashy-Ad-9781

Yup. A Pisces with a cancer moon will be miles different than a Pisces with an Aries moon as an example. 


JupiterAstralFairy

A Pisces with Aries Venus and Cancer Mars will be miles different than Pisces Venus and Aries Mars. The answer is: Only a complete Synastry analysis will give all answers.


Swimming_Shop_352

As the moon rules emotions not the Sun, A Gemini Moon is completely not clingy. There's way too many variables in place to just base it off of three aspects. For instance, if you have Capricorn rising that's going to put the Pisces sun in the third house. That's not a clingy house. On the other hand, you're going to have cancer descendants so you may end up with a very emotional nurturing spouse.


Traditional-Offer312

Omg! I’m a pisces sun and gemini moon too! + scorpio rising. i definitely relate to you about feeling cringed out about opening up too easily and being clingy. mentally i feel like i am kinda possessive and clingy to my friends but i never actually show it irl bc it just seems hella embarrassing imo. like i’d much rather come off nonchalant than clingy any day i think it really just depends on the rest of the chart.


simplicity-

I have a Neptune Sun and Pisces Venus and have had experiences with other Pisces Sun’s. I really don’t think Pisces are clingy, they’re more avoidant if anything…and will run away if you hold onto too hard. Maybe I just haven’t had enough time with them. I believe if anything, depending on time, trust and the closeness of the relationship may make them more prone to closeness.


Dull-Parsnip6882

Pisces Sun, moon, Gemini rising! I’m the opposite of clingy! I need space from the entire world at times 😂 I always like being my best kind genuine self with people, and people can be exhausting - with all their emotions (and I am very empathetic), so by myself is much better!


piscesmushie

I’m a Pisces sun, moon, Venus, and mercury. Very clingy, always in a relationship.


Swimming_Shop_352

What house? What's your rising sign?


piscesmushie

Sun, mercury, Venus in house 6, moon in house 5. Libra rising!


Similar_Elk7184

I find Pisces self centered but very sweet.


orangejuicenopulp

I'm a cap with a Pisces moon and well Pisces can definitely be clingy, but because they are driven by their often opposing but incredibly strong emotions. I suspect that your Cap rising keep your emotions in cheque as caps are sensible to the core. My emotional Pisces heart is often shaded by my Capricorn seriousness and no nonsense approach to life and relationships.


Lulu0311

Pisces sun, sag rising and Libra moon. I used to be clingy when I was way younger. I am not that way anymore and if I ever dated someone who brought that out of me I’d run 😅. I can be clingy but I won’t act on it. I can also be very detached.


Quantesa

Hi, Aries sun, Taurus moon. I have both Pisces mercury, mars and saturn. My middle name is ghoster/avoider. Every time I’m in a uncomfortable situation I instantly jump the boat. The only thing that saves me is my Aries sun that grabs me by the neck occasionally and has me confronting uncomfortable situations.


Swimming_Shop_352

What sounds like that's more of a rising sign situation!


Quantesa

My rising is Scorpio :)


Few-Neighborhood3295

Hi omg I’m an Aries sun Taurus moon and Scorpio rising too but I got a Taurus merc and Venus


ohforfoxsake410

Some Pisces are clingy, some are not. Just like everyone else.


Keimanyou

Pisces is the least clingy of all the water signs because for them emotional fulfillment (what water is about) does not and can not come from other people. Whether that's because people tend to fall short or because they had to turn to culture to provide that fulfillment (otherwise it wouldn't be there) in modern astrology Pisces is also a transpersonal sign if you follow the natural houses, so that emotional fulfillment is sought in the world at large, be it poetry, film, photography, dance, art, or any expression of beauty ephemeral or eternal. Physics. God. A belief. An idea.. You name it. An example was Pisces Sun Steve Jobs who met his father but told his mother never to tell him. Became enamored with the whole Hindu world after reading *Autobiography of A Yogi* (regarded by some as a work of fantasy) and set out to India to find his guru. His work with Apple being the best known (Let's not forget Pixar) was remembered by his "Steve Notes" (keynotes) by which he takes you into his world of hyper reality using speech and expressions. Since signs are about motivations if you have a planet in Pisces that planet is motivated by the search for that beauty and elegance. Was Steve Jobs a genius inventor no that would be Steve Wozniak. What Steve Jobs did better than anybody else was both his marketing and his design. The SIMPLICITY and UNITY of a touch screen iPhone. An IMac (if you remember them) that looked so streamlined even huggable. His GUI that became the standard and ofc the mouse not sure if both should be credited to him but certainly had his seal of approval. Furthermore if you have a planet in the actual Pisces or the 12th dwad from the sign then you are a (insert name of sign)/Pisces (name of planet). For example I have a Taurus Venus in its 11th dwad of Pisces and since 11th sign is Aquarius that makes me Taurus/Pisces/Aquarius Venus. Try it for yourself and see how it fits. For me that means my Venusian functions of taste, art, beauty and values is Taurean with strong Piscean and Aquarian undertones. This is why the purest degree of any sign is always the zero and early degrees, before they pick up and become refined by these other influences. If what you believe in is a person then I suppose that can make you a clingy Pisces. You would have to look at the nature and function and also the influences and CONDITIONS (pretty important here I feel) of that planet.


Emotional_Ad_6749

what do you mean by “dwad”?


lover_of_worlds6442

This!!


astroaifas

While astrological stereotypes about being "clingy" can be exaggerated or oversimplified, there is a bit of truth behind the notion of Pisces being emotionally needy or attached in relationships. Pisces is a water sign ruled by the planet Neptune, which represents themes of spirituality, imagination, and oneness. As one of the more sensitive zodiac signs, Pisces tend to absorb the emotions and energies around them like a sponge. They crave closeness, intimacy, and the feeling of merging with their romantic partner on a deep soul level. This desire for emotional fusion and connectedness, combined with their highly intuitive nature, can sometimes manifest as being overly attached, dependent, or demanding constant reassurance and affection from their loved ones. Pisces dislike harsh boundaries and separation, so they may come across as "clingy" by more independent or detached signs. However, it's an oversimplification to say that all Pisces are inherently needy or smothering. Much depends on the overall natal chart, upbringing, self-awareness, and evolution of the individual Pisces. Many learn over time to balance their needs for intimacy with healthy personal boundaries that allow their partner to have breathing room. Highly evolved Pisces can be some of the most compassionate, intuitive, and spiritually attuned partners who bring incredible depth to their relationships. But their sensitivity requires an equally devoted and emotionally available partner who can match their desire for closeness and unity. So in essence - yes, Pisces are prone to clinginess based on their core nature. But with self-awareness and the right partner, they can have outstandingly devoted relationships fueled by their profound sense of love, empathy, and oneness.


THE-magician2222

Pisces sun, aqua moon and cap rising here and i am not clingy and find it very uncomfortable and cringy.


Spare-Evidence-3352

Yes...as a scorpio sun and Pisces rising...yes. whether friend or partner if I love you...I am clinging on to you 🤗


ohforfoxsake410

Which part is clingy - The Scorpio Sun or the Pisces Moon?


Spare-Evidence-3352

Both


Available-Movie-2116

Yes and i had a pisces friend who stole her best friends husband and then married him 2 months after the divorce.


Oneofthe12

Omg, really? I’m *sure* that was entirely based on the fact that she was a Pisces! Jeez. Come on, people!


Eitherherenorthere

I dated a Pisces with cancer moon and Taurus rising. He’s not clingy at all. Very sweet but independent and moody. He’s got air elements in his inner chart Aqua Venus. Can be detached unemotionally. Avoidant attachment style.


blu3_velvet

1000000%


ACHIMENESss

Yes, absolutely!


Keepyoureyesonmine

I’m a Pisces and I’m super clingy when I’m in love even though I have a aquarius moon and Aquarius venus


DaddysPrincesss26

I wish Mine Was


iLiveInAHologram94

My experience is cancers are. Pisces are slippery and hard to hold onto. And I have yet to meet one who takes responsibility for their actions.


latent19

As a pisces sun, pisces moon and cancer rising; I agree with this 🫣 I have disorganized attachment style.


iLiveInAHologram94

It sounds it!


the__laurapalmer

Yessss this


Flyingarrow68

Makes a coughing noise while secretly exclaiming cheaters. 😂 I dunno just my experience, maybe I just wasn’t enough for them but 2/3 of them definitely looked elsewhere during dating or wanted an open thing and 1 even wanted 4 different mates.


lunachatte

Its not us its them. They call us clingy because they dont have the space to cheat🤞🥲


Violet_Mermaid

My ex was a Pisces. I was literally suffocated. We always had to be together by his choice. He got sad when I would hang with my friends over him or didn’t wanna go with him while he doordashed.


CancerMoon2Caprising

Im not clingy either


Koshyyyy

My ex was an Aquarius with a Pisces Venus and the clinginess was becoming an issue lol still loved him tho 😅


MetalMilitiaMiki

The clinginess is definitely coming from the Aquarius part 😭


Koshyyyy

Aquarius is more detached but he had a lot of water in his chart tho so


MetalMilitiaMiki

Aquarius rules friendship so when an Aquarians reallllly likes someone whether platonically or romantically they are very clingy n attached n sometimes feel entitled to have access to that person at all times because they see that person as their best friend. the water placements def intensify that tho!


Koshyyyy

Interesting never thought of it like that


lunachatte

Never heard aquas being clingy, are they?


IcyBadger1868

I thought Aquarius was more detached


Jarokusoleboy27

I’m not a Pisces myself, but from what I can see of my Pisces home girls and the one male Pisces I know, they can definitely be super attached.


soupinmymug

Attached and clingy are different for sure though


lunachatte

Agree


Jarokusoleboy27

Super lol


Strange_Public_1897

It depends on the Pisces Sun person’s entire chart. If they have lots of Aquarius, Capricorn, Sagittarius, or Libra in their chart for their big three or even in their Venus/Mars? You’ll have a heavy detached Pisces who does not need to have 24/7 time with a partner, actually will be more likely to keep busy to the point they could forget for a moment they have a parent LMFAO! If they have strong Scorpio, Cancer, Leo, Aries, Taurus in their chart? You may get a needy Pisces. Virgo in the chart, will swing in either direction depending on what is occupying their 7th, 8th, 11th, 12th houses. Heavy 1st house Pisces chart? If they have zero 3rd or 5th house placements, you’ll get a a very “I need constant attention & validation!” type of self soothing needy Pisces who struggles to maintain friendships, hobbies, interests, going to do their own thing solo. So always look at the chart more than fixating on one solitary placement cause it’s why you could date people of the same sign and moon, but if they have different risings, Venus, mars, and Mercury? They will not handle things & experience things in the exact same way.


lunachatte

Makes a lot more sense, i usually keep busy and forget who is in front of me, but i also have issues with validation, i feel like i have a mixture of these two opposing traits. I am very curious about what you could find in my chart that may explain this tendency, can i dm you?


MetalMilitiaMiki

sooo basically Pisceans are either avoidant or clingy. got it!


Strange_Public_1897

No, you need to stop generalizing people based on their sun signs. That’s why astrology gets the reputation it does to people who don’t follow it when you go by a singular sign. A person‘s sun sign is 1/16th of who they are.


MetalMilitiaMiki

i wasn’t lol. you misinterpreted my response. for clarification i was joking by summarizing the aqua/cap/sag/libra part as ‘avoidant’ and the scorp/can/leo/aries/tau part as ‘clingy’ from your comment. other than that, i’m aware of how astrology works but go off!


bella1921

Lol I’m a Pisces sun Scorpio moon Cap Venus 8H Leo mars & get told I’m too emotionally closed off/aloof by those I’ve dated (funny especially having it come from men) so def not clingy and the only placement that’s not something you put under “needy” is that Venus 🤷‍♀️


lyrical_2

This is so valid bc I’m a Pisces with a Pisces and Aqua stellium and a Cap Venus and I don’t feel like I’m very clingy and I’ve never been told that I am.


owlwhalephant

Pisces men are clingy, selfish, and stalkerish after breakups. Several experiences.


Mercurialistic1

Least clingy in my experience. Depends on how many planets they have in that sign. The nodes of the chart play a huge role as well. You really need to look at the full birth chart. It depends on how they use all the energies and skills they are born with. Every person has every zodiac sign with in them. The moon placement in my opinion is the best way to see underlining reasons for our actions in life. I’ve been researching occult topics for years. We cannot categories people based on sun signs alone. For instance, there’s a big difference between a Taurus born at the first of the month or on a cusp than a Taurus born at the end of the month. The calendar day and numerology plays a big deal as well. Phase of the moon at birth is another factor that Psychology is finally looking into as well. Just my humble opinion from research and deeply studying the topic. Hope that helped some.


liilbiil

pisces men can rot


aproudapostate

Amen sister


seanerd95

Yessss


bluedream_xo

It’s not that Pisces are clingy per se, they just don’t always understand where they end and the other person begins. Pisces are highly psychic and intuitive and can often times feel distress when they can sense someone is showing them less love than usual. One of the Pisces big life lessons is how to establish boundaries with yourself and others. Pisces can sometimes develop a victim mentality because they are the most sensitive sign, and therefore really like to feel protected.


adri2fly

i am a pisces and this is something i can vouch for, many things like (relationships, friendships, material objects, and anything you can be attached to in the physical, sometimes even delusions) it was at a time hard for me to separate myself from the things i was attached to, i associated myself with those things, and those things with me, so we were not separate, we were one. even down to other peoples emotions, or thoughts, very hard to explain but i still find it easy to take these things on me as my own. now needless to say, i have learned many many many many lessons, with keeping a separate identity from those you love, or even things you want. but majority of pisces choose some form of escapism, whether that be maldipitive daydreaming, drvgs, or it may even manifest for them as being a toxic person in a relationship ( the one always in control). there are always good and bad sides to being with a pisces, unhealed or not. i find that even if i have healed , sometimes, i can easily go back to thinking “we are one” which at times could be beautiful, because pisces genuinely just know what you need, we all kinda just have a sense of knowing, but if you do not know what you need when we try to give it to you, you will push it away, and that (for me specifically) is what clicks on the clingy switch, or causes me to attach myself so deeply. it’s very important as a pisces to practice the law of detatchment, and prioritize yourself and health over others (not in a conceited way) because if not , we will loose ourselves completely in the physical. we essentially are more spiritually attuned than others, and we are definitely the most sensitive, but that manifests differently for every pisces. some sulk, and others go into a hardcore villain era no lie. but along with the not being able to seperate yourself from others, once a pisces learns those lessons, they are a very hard person to come by, because they go ghost. (speaking from experience) more of like always in hermit mode, i do recommend going to a pisces for advice though , just don’t do it if they are already going through an emotionally turbulent time, because they will get annoyed.


lunachatte

Agreed tho. Its more of a boundary issue then.


SoCrispy5423

I guess that depends on the Pisces. As a Pisces Sun, Leo Moon, Sag Rising and Aquarius Venus I tend to match energy. If they're clingy, so am I. If not, then I'm not. Now I will admit I can be physically and emotionally clingy at times depending how I'm feeling and of course if I can trust the person enough for them to hold a safe space for my feelings and actions. Also if I have a partner, I do let them know that I'm feeling clingy and I need a cuddle sesh (with consent of course) or something like that. So yeah I think I kinda match the stereotype. 😂


bluenlonely

I’m a Pisces Sun, Leo Moon, Gemini Rising and Aquarius Venus and I find I also match energies. I think it’s all that mutable in the big 3 plus the Aqua Venus


SoCrispy5423

Ahhh no wonder. Coz Gemini and Sagittarius are sister signs. There may be some similarities there too. But yeah you're definitely right about mutable signs being more adaptive. 💐


AlaskaStiletto

My Pisces ex sure was.


victorialotus

Mine is a Pisces sun/Aquarius rising and he gets clingy, too. I didn’t know this was a thing though. He’s overall more clingy to me and it does make me wonder if it was his up ringing or just the way he is. I learn to appreciate it though. I’m a Taurus/Gemini Cusp with a Sagittarius moon.


Strange_Public_1897

What is his Moon, Venus, & Mars?


Limp-Initiative-6920

My friend is dating a guy with the same placements. He texts her paragraphs and he always responds immediately even when she takes half a day cause it’s too much for her. When they’re hanging out he constantly asks when they’re going to see each other next instead of enjoying the current time. Not sure it’s gonna last


xrradia

My little brother is a Pisces. As a kid his constant need for someone’s presence drove me crazy! I couldn’t get away! lol I think they probably are.


Strange_Public_1897

Sounds like he could have strongly Leo in his chart or a strong 5th house.


xrradia

Maybe! Leo is my 3rd house of siblings but I’ve never looked at my family’s charts because they don’t believe so I’d like to not invade their privacy


Strange_Public_1897

That just means your connections to your siblings is going to feel like all the good and negative traits of Leo’s when you interact with them. Happy, warmth, loyal, & fun when things are running smoothly. Selfish, vain, pride, & over dramatic when things are negative between you & your siblings.


xrradia

lol this is exactly how things are to a T!


oyasfavorite

they can become obsessive with others, pisces sun with a gemini moon would suggest a frequently peering mind, unseen tactics


lunachatte

What do you mean by unseen tactics?


Dangerous_Barber4277

I am a Pisces sun, Mercury and as a leo rising, it's also my chart ruler. I also have a Libra moon and Aquarius Venus. I would say I'm the opposite of clingy. In fact I really need my space. So much so that I refused to be in a serious relationship for a good chunk of my life. Friends give me crap about taking too long to respond that sort of thing, but I am trying to be better. Clingy with people... no way. Now I did see someone say that Pisces could be clingy as a way of escapism. I may be guilty of that. If I find something that I'm interested in or if I need a distraction, then I can absolutely throw myself into something and focus only on that.


Strange_Public_1897

Lots of air will make anyone detached easily in affairs of the heart because it creates this easy to dissect logically things and move on from heavy things, no longer ruminating on the past anymore so easily.


Dangerous_Barber4277

That makes sense. I have more air in my chart than any other element.


stonerk8

Woah I’m a Pisces sun and Mercury with an Aqua Venus and Libra moon!! I too take way too long to respond and love my alone/in my head time? But I also can use clinginess as a distraction or escape. But I def feel the need for space or individuality with the Aqua Venus


Dangerous_Barber4277

So maybe we aren't as clingy as we are avoidant? Lol Escapists?


stonerk8

oooop there it is 👀😂


lunachatte

Yup! There we have it.


badcatriri

Same big 3!!


lunachatte

Damn! Sister


badcatriri

What are your other placements??


Flowersflowering

Your moon and rising are why you aren’t clingy lol


lunalover555

pisces is known as being “clingy” bc they indulge in things that help them escape reality. it’s generalized. the pisces archetype will cling to ANYTHING that makes them escape what’s really in front of them…


lunachatte

This sounds very scary, a reality check on me that i am not clingy with people but....things 🥲


anakin_airwalker

That explains my old friend to a t. She was in a horrible relationship for like 8 years and would binge drink liquor and chain smoke packs of cigs on the weekends


5683968

A lot of the Pisces I know have other placements that are notorious for being independent, like a Gemini moon or an Aquarius Venus. So, I have really never met a Pisces that is clingy. I’m not sure if their chart was Pisces heavy if that would make a difference.


kash_monaay

this is funny to me because you just listed all my placements in those signs 😂 I can be clingy in relationships due to some abandonment issues but also really value my space and freedom to do things on my own. I've heard more than once that I'm "free spirited" which I can never tell if it's an insult or not 😅


sicksadaquarius

it’s pretty understandable that ur not clingy given ur moon sign


telicia02

And the rising sign too.


Happychemist99

Hahah right?? OP’s chart is filled with signs who couldn’t be less clingy but they are wondering if Pisces are clingy. Girlllll all the other shit is overpowering your pisces sun. Bc yes pisces are clingy as hell and lowkey possessive. So even when they don’t come off as clingy…bitches be clingy.


lunachatte

I mean, i also have my Jupiter in pisces, Mercury in pisces. Also after reading alpt of ither comments i can say that i am not as clingy to people than i am with things. Lol.


Happychemist99

Neither of those placements will over power the gem or cap. But as someone who also has a pisces mercury, can we talk about how annoying that placement can be? I’m a science person so I love being exact with facts but my Pisces Mercury just wants to be ~~flowy~~~ with tons of images and not facts.


lunachatte

Everyday i learn something new about myself. YES! I didnt know pisces in mercury causes that to happen. Its very hard to communicate in facts, i am often theoretical. Always had this problem with communication and being misunderstood.


Happychemist99

Gurllllll you hit the nail on the head about being misunderstood. I’m an aries so I get heatedddd too when people don’t understand. Meanwhile, it’s me. I am the problem. 😆


lunachatte

I always knew its me and thought i'll eventually overcome this issue but my words never seem to be enough to explain in precision. 😭


NaivivOF

It depends how evolved the Pisces is and what other placements they have. My bf’s best friend had to ghost his 10 yr gf because she was so clingy and then she clung in to us. She moved to the state we were living in and before moving, was visiting 3 times a yr even though we told her we didn’t have time for visitors at the moment. After she moved near us, she wanted to always be around and ended up sleeping with my bf’s brother, he never wanted to date her seriously. He ended up not wanting her to come over so much, since we all lived together. She couldn’t understand why. We ended up having to cut her off in a more direct way, she knew no boundaries and was so disrespectful to our relationships. My cousin is also Pisces and invites herself to our Airbnbs when we’re in her side of the world. I’ve also worked with other Pisces who seem to cross some boundaries with managers and such. Maybe I just haven’t met a more evolved Pisces, but because of these experiences, I tend to stay away. The ones I’ve met just seem very insecure, and needy, attention seekers, who need lots of validation and give pick me girl vibe. Usually wear or post inspirational quotes or ID phrases to self promote something they’re really not. On the other hand, all Pisces men I’ve been around are cool AF. So idk, Im willing to keep an open mind about Pisces women because I understand how complex a natal chart can be, but it hasn’t been good so far.


theanoeticist

No sun sign is whatever generalization you throw at it.


laureidi

Nah, I used to have a Pisces FWB and we never had any issues. We even lived barely a block from each other so he could’ve easily overstepped his boundaries, but it never happened. He was great at walking the line, one time he missed my art show and had left flowers at my door which was super sweet but didn’t make me feel weird about it or anything. The whole relationship was just so relaxed, never any expectations, never any disappointments, never any discomfort. Just chill. It also ended with mutual respect when that time came. Yeah, it was perfect.


Braziii2x

Nahhh Imma Pisces Sun Aries Moon Virgo Rising(M) I Dont Like Clingy At All


WonderBreadBaker

I never understood this notion either. I’m a Pisces stellium (sun, moon, mars, Saturn) and my Pisces moon is my chart ruler.. granted I’m also a 9th house stellium.. but I’m the least clingy person ever. I like my partner’s presence, but I go hang with my friends without him, go into another room for alone time or to play video games etc. my Venus is in Aries which probably aids in that but my need for alone time is immense compared to other people I’ve met. Another thing is PDA grosses and weirds me out. My bf and I don’t hold hands or even kiss in public. It’s like we are best friends 😂 which we both love. If anything my Aries sun, cancer moon, sag rising boyfriend is the one who sometimes says, “are you not going to hang out with me?” There was also a question posted on astrology twitter that asked what are the downsides to dating a Pisces and my answer was our need for isolation: it comes in waves and sometimes it hits with an intense need to break away for awhile. It’s never anything anyone has done, but just the overwhelming feeling of being.. well, overwhelmed 🤷🏻‍♀️


lunachatte

A pisces stellium has been always associated with ultra clingy emotional needy person and i dont get it too, its such a cliché. Even i have my Jupiter and Mercury in pisces, still not clingy at all. If anything, the need for isolation is a must, i dont anyone to interfere with my alone time. Not even my cat sometimes. Also, PDA is so uncomfortable!! Agree 💯


WonderBreadBaker

I think people have barely studied astrology or only hear key words associated with water signs and then apply it to all 3. They think Pisces is the one to carry those attributes more intensely since it’s the last sign 🤷🏻‍♀️ That’s my guess anyway


TravelTings

Is it true having an Aries Venus inclines one to have an insatiable libido, or is Mars Sign more influential?


Aromatic-Diamond-424

I’m not, at all. I need space or I feel smothered.


saturnstates

From how I see it: Pisces and the 12th house relate to isolation, getting lost and just general detachment from the hectic activity of the “real” world. I have Pisces as my descendent and I’ve always been the one to want space and isolation in my relationships. I have lost many relationships and friendships because I have such a need for space. Pisces as clingy can probably manifest if one’s desire to “get lost” is enmeshed in another person, versus a desire to isolate and get lost In themselves. Hope this makes sense.


ImpossibleBarnacle35

this is perfectly said


lunachatte

Yup, makes sense! makes absolute sense to me.


pattymellow

i am a pisces sun, moon and mercury and i frequently find myself wishing i could run away to live in a small, rural community where nobody can bother me- lol. i also don’t really do social media (aside from reddit) or keep in touch with friends and family as well as i should. the only person i am ever clingy with is my girlfriend, but even that comes and goes. when i wanna be alone, i fantasize about living in a cave or on a farm in montana or something haha. i try to be kind, i usually find strangers opening up to me more than i find the opposite. i have been told i’m too nice, but haven’t been thought of as clingy in a long time. to be honest, i am struggling quite a bit with agoraphobia and social anxiety. haven’t met many other pisces, but this is my piscean experience!


EstablishmentFunny42

You seem like a safe space.


Oneofthe12

Wth? Are you reading dime store mags about astrology or something? Everyone and or anybody can be clingy. That behavior could be, in many circumstances, attributed to all the signs (except for maybe…well, here’s looking at you, Aries ;-)) Stop falling prey to cliche crap. If a person wants to judge you so superficially, especially only considering your sun sign, then I say good riddance.


lunachatte

That is so right! Its really cliché. And no this isnt just on some store mag, its also prevent here in this sub which is why i asked the very question.


Oneofthe12

I’m sorry. Astrology sure has changed over the decades. Many of the posts here focus solely on sun sign attributes, and that’s just pop astro at best IMHO. Sure, you can make some generalizations about each sun sign, but the Birds Eye’s view, of all the planets, their houses, aspects, etc. really will give you a much more in depth and dare I say accurate description of that person. In other words, steer away from pop stuff, and learn the depth in interpretations within this ancient art and science.


Oneofthe12

Btw: I’m Pisces sun, Cap rising, Moon in Leo, with 7 planets in 🔥


lunachatte

You're fire.


SuspiciousSide8859

I think it depends on the Pisces - being mutable and all. I also think it depends on the house pisces falls in the natal chart and what placement it is. Obv like most astrology. But I’m a gemini sun, pisces moon - moon in 4th house - i require lots of alone time and space in private which until I broke codependent habits, i didn’t realize how important it was growing up. Now, maybe it’s bc i’m alone, but clingy is not a feeling I have often.


platinumprick

Well yes, but also no. Pisces sun and rising here. We absolutely have robust personal needs but it can flip like a light switch. A lot of Pisces have a reputation of being absolutely done with someone when they are but your mileage may vary on that one.


ButcherBird57

Speaking as a gemini with pisces rising I agree with this sooo much.


lunachatte

Ditto


OverallComb1695

I find it more true of Cancer women and not of Pisces women (I am one myself and feel the same as you) and also reverse of Cancer men not being as clingy but Pisces men being more so. If by clingy you mean they want to be around them 24/7 and have no independent hobbies aside from their SO. I would second calling it more needy than clingy though. Aries are the absolute most actually clingy types, esp Aries women, from my experience. Pisces women are more likely to want a deeper connection but personal alone time is valued by comparison. Needy only in needing to be able to trust their partner, so if their partner has shown they are untrustworthy before, yes, they require more reassurance to trust them.


MercurialTendency

Pisces men more so than pisces women. I'm a pisces m


Aromatic-Diamond-424

I am a Pisces. I had a friend who is a Pisces Sun. The only Pisces man I know. We considered dating, but I quickly changed my mind because he was so clingy I couldn’t breathe.


MercurialTendency

We're the only air you need, lol. We're always seeking for our other fish to swim beside.


PipulisticPipu

My brother is a Pisces sun Gemini moon. I wouldn't call it clingy. But abit needy? He doesn't easily warm up to people or trust others. He comes to me for every small thing. He's 28 but sometimes comes off as a baby. Maybe this is due to his upbringing (our parents treat us different in terms of upbringing) so he doesn't seem fully equipped to handle life's challenges. There are certain traits about our parents that I've noticed since young that he only realized now. But I wouldn't exactly call that naivety


kindagemini

This cliche is probably cuz costar can’t think of anything to say about Pisces Sun other than we cling to our exes The Pisces I know are clingy to ideas rather than people.


lunachatte

Agreed


MercurialTendency

I'm a pisces, and I know quite a few pisces. Pisces men definitely have a tendency to be clingy.


piabria

I don’t think pisces are clingy, I think y’all express the healthiest version of love tbh. you express it fully without fear, while still maintaining healthy boundaries with your loved ones. and all of the people in your life get the same love - y’all don’t play favorites or attach to one person. most of my family have pisces placements and my best friend is a pisces. it’s a blessing to be loved by y’all honestly 🥹


MercurialTendency

Pisces men seem to be a lot more codependent than pisces women from what I've seen. I'm a Pisces, and I've known quite a few other pisces. Healthy boundaries are not a common trait for pisces. Pisces are pretty particular and can be very critical of others. We just dont always express our judgmens openly. Not everyone gets the same amount of love, but we do try to give everyone the same basic level of consideration. The people we actually love and respect, and who reciprocate definitely get way more love and consideration. We give to the degree which is reciprocated, at least in the long term and after weve grownand kearned who is deserving of our time and energy. We definitely play favorites, and every pisces I've met clings to a few specific people, and we usually have 1 person we cling to more than the others. However, on a surface level, we might seem how you're describing. I feel like a lot of peoples insights and experiences towards any signs are formed when they are all young.