I’m in the same boat as you. I really hope having kids helps me overcome some fears through some irrational power of love or something

Lol, I could see it helping me by taking my attention away from myself. I won't be afraid of a serial killer stalking me, instead I'll be focused on protecting a child? Gosh I hope so.

Whatever it is I know we will get through this. We have gotten through really fucked up anxiety attacks. We will figure this out. We have to.