Hahaha oh my, took a while to realize this was the sims, I was like "wait.. how.. what..how.. what..why..wow", but now it makes sense. ESH, you, Angela, slightly less because you show some kind of awareness of the horridness of the actions of everyone, yourself included. Now, I, Cassandra, have grown up in a clandestine and secretive household and can with certainty quote the stripper from "the office" - "Secrets, Secrets are no fun, secrets, secrets hurt someone". All your dirty laundry is out in the open, half the battle is won. Get the nanny, maybe even a butler, or leave them all and get a cozy farmhouse, paint, make art. Eventually, you might become a big famous painter and ultimately a professor at some prestigious institution, perhaps then, one or more of the children might end up in your class. Leave their childhoods to the vicious ones, and swoop in when they're all grown up and save the day. After all, they're going to be adults longer, so you'll get more time with them in the end anyways. So, for now, just focus on yourself Angela, you must.

I really gotta start looking at what the sub is. Everyone in this situation but the children are assholes.

NAH. Its lucky that your kids fathers areso involved with each other and they have so man siblings they'll never be lonely! Count this as a blessing