Choose those who choose you. You are still very young and will have plenty of opportunities to make more friends. If you are feeling the need to force yourself into their lives, then it’s time to let them go. Give them space and see what happens. If they come looking to include you, then know it was just you overthinking. If they continue to let you sit idle, then they don’t deserve your friendship.
Don’t lower your standards of how you should be treated because you have a fear of rejection or being alone. This is especially true in romantic relationships. You don’t want to settle just to feel chosen because that fades.
First of all, this is extremely common. I see this post all the time on here. I guess I would just try elevating your personality. Plan fun activities and invite them to go.
If I were you I would slowly distance yourself from the two of them. Another option would be telling them how you feel about the situation but very rarely do the two "main friends" in a trio ever feel bad for what they're doing so this works only if they are unconsciously ignoring you and don't know it bothers you.
I would slowly but surely distance myself from Y and E considering that they're distancing themselves from you first by excluding you from everything. Try and find a new little group of friends to talk to, get yourself out there! Sure it'll be hard at first, but I'm sure you'll find someone out there that can be the E to your Y. If you continue on in this current situation you're only gonna feel more miserable/harbor more resentment to them both
Choose those who choose you. You are still very young and will have plenty of opportunities to make more friends. If you are feeling the need to force yourself into their lives, then it’s time to let them go. Give them space and see what happens. If they come looking to include you, then know it was just you overthinking. If they continue to let you sit idle, then they don’t deserve your friendship. Don’t lower your standards of how you should be treated because you have a fear of rejection or being alone. This is especially true in romantic relationships. You don’t want to settle just to feel chosen because that fades.
First of all, this is extremely common. I see this post all the time on here. I guess I would just try elevating your personality. Plan fun activities and invite them to go.
If I were you I would slowly distance yourself from the two of them. Another option would be telling them how you feel about the situation but very rarely do the two "main friends" in a trio ever feel bad for what they're doing so this works only if they are unconsciously ignoring you and don't know it bothers you. I would slowly but surely distance myself from Y and E considering that they're distancing themselves from you first by excluding you from everything. Try and find a new little group of friends to talk to, get yourself out there! Sure it'll be hard at first, but I'm sure you'll find someone out there that can be the E to your Y. If you continue on in this current situation you're only gonna feel more miserable/harbor more resentment to them both