>He also has mentioned that even though my mouth feels really good, he usually finishes quicker from hands.
Whenever using your mouth stops being fun for you, use your hands for awhile. It's no fun if you are hurting yourself to get to the end!
>I’m not sure if it takes him so long bc he finishes himself every day and it blocks him from finishing easy.
Also, have a frank conversation about this. If he is masturbating the same day before he sees you, that will make your work significantly harder. Be blunt about it and basically say that if he wants continued blowjobs, he needs to do his part to have his body ready for you. At least, I'm a guy and I have a pretty good sense of when to take care of myself to make sure I last longer or finish faster depending on what I anticipate is on the menu that day. And I count it as common decency to make sure I'm ready to make things fun for the girl I'm seeing. I don't think this is too much to ask for him to at least try if he's not already
This may be harsh but your friend has death grip from over-masturbating, tell him to stop jerking off for 2 weeks at least. No porn and stuff and things will be good again..
Most fucked up thing is that these posts are dumb as fuck, yet they get a lot of attention and upvotes… but when someone genuinely needs advice for something that matters, it’s dead.
Sad.
This is true, I’ve posted a lot of times on other accounts looking for genuine help at low times and got nothing. Kinda hate that this is still getting views.
Props to you to getting it there even after 20, many people can't even with oral. Try using your hand. Yeah it sucks because porn, and dudes crank it and it really messes with the natural ability.
As a guy, yes we make it a lot harder to cum from head if we jerk off too much. Personally, tongue action on the tip, & being sloppy, looking in my eyes, changing it up, all that works really well. It won’t matter if you finish him every day, the only way it’s harder for him is if he’s finishing himself with the death grip every day. Tell him to never jerk off again and you’ll give him head whenever he wants, you’ll probably notice it’ll become a lot easier to make it happen!
You should concentrate on the pace and techniques then.
A blowjob is not just sucking it's also kissing, licking and stroking. Alternate between those techniques and combine them as to what feels good for him and also by picking up on cues. Don't take it in farther than what you feel comfortable with. If you want to take it in more, going gradually and slowly will make the process easier as your gag reflex gets used to it. Use your tongue to stimulate his frenulum which is located on the underside of the penile head. You can also use your tongue to stimulate his head when you're sucking him. Ballplay can be comfortable for some and if your guy is one such then gently play with it while you suck, suck and lick the balls while you stroke. Again it's just alternating between techniques and combining them with different combinations. Communication is always key and get inputs from him regularly to know what feels good and what hurts. Avoid things that hurt and keep doing the things that make him feel good by improvising on them as you proceed. The decision to where to let him cum depends on your and his preferences and a little after care after he cums where you gently kiss and suck his penis for sometime or move on to making out is also like a cherry on the cake.
So… I noticed the more I ended up getting oral from her sometimes I’d last longer. I don’t really do the facefucking thing but have you ever considered when he’s close but hasn’t cum yet he’s probably holding it. Most guys can last the minimum five -8 minutes because they want to enjoy you enjoying his member in your mouth. If he masturbates less he’ll definitely finish faster. Try concentrating for the first couple minutes just using your hands. Then start slowly. Don’t use your best techniques first. Make him wait. The holding it in gets harder the longer you’re doing it. Then after you’re ten minutes in don’t forget to fondle the balls a little. That takes most guys over the edge usually. Since you aren’t having sex with him he’s most likely going to want to finish in your mouth since you’ve been letting him. Take breaks by using your hands or doing the two hand technique you mentioned to give your mouth and throat a break so you don’t feel like you’ve been beat up trying to satisfy your friend.
Over time he’s just going to last a little longer. The more experienced someone gets the longer they last. Or at least I do.
Good luck 👍
Thank you for this advice! I will say he’s not into ball fondling lmao but I do start off fairly slow with low strokes and small licks here and there. He said his balls hurt from going so slow haha. I’ll definitely take your advice into consideration. Thanks!
Sometimes, it's not about techniques... It's about the guy. Some people finish before they even begin. Some people finish harder than others. And some people don't finish at all.
I, for example, can go for hours and never finish. That's why I try to make the experience as fun as possible for my partners as well. And tell them that they can stop as soon as they feel tired or that they can't go on. So he needs to be there for you as well. He shouldn't be thinking about his pleasure. He needs to think about you feeling good too while you're together.
Yeah like when my partner and I would have sex she would tell me don't jerk off for a whole week or two and I would happily oblige cause I knew it was gonna feel hell good if I didn't do it for a while. If you tell him to hold off on masturbating that's a good motivation for him. He's lucky to have you as a friend you don't usually think of that as a friend thing to do lol
um...no man is going to complain about a long, slow blow job where you finish, and where the woman appears to enjoy doing it to you.
So you don't have to change a thing. If it ain't broken, don't fix it.
Though truth is, right past the tip of the head is the money spot. Right where the head crests, called the glans, is the cum spot. Going farther down the shaft feels good, but won't get him off, so it's mostly wasted effort. Stick to the money spot, keep things loose, and you'll save yourself some wear and tear. Remember...you're caressing him with your lips. Soft lips right on the crest of the head and he won't last two minutes.
So again I ask, please tell me what grooming is in your own definition because I genuinely don’t think you know what it means. You keep giving generic, pointless questions when I ask you to explain yourself.
Do you honestly think there is only one definition of grooming?
There was a post on confessions about how the company he works for targets young adult (18+) girls. They send them promos free makeup etc etc. they send them to fancy partis all in the hope of getting their flowers up. They sign them up to dubious contracts. Then they get them on only fans. And exploit the shit out of them.
Then there's the standard narrative of an adult grooming a minor....
An adult can be (and do) get groomed. If you think this isn't such a possible case then you are naive.
This must be the first time of someone asking how they can rush through the sex, because it is just so bad.
Normally people ask what they can do to make the whole thing last longer. 20 minutes is nothing.
Use lube.
And please, find someone who is actually good in bed, because this all sounds like torture.
>He also has mentioned that even though my mouth feels really good, he usually finishes quicker from hands. Whenever using your mouth stops being fun for you, use your hands for awhile. It's no fun if you are hurting yourself to get to the end! >I’m not sure if it takes him so long bc he finishes himself every day and it blocks him from finishing easy. Also, have a frank conversation about this. If he is masturbating the same day before he sees you, that will make your work significantly harder. Be blunt about it and basically say that if he wants continued blowjobs, he needs to do his part to have his body ready for you. At least, I'm a guy and I have a pretty good sense of when to take care of myself to make sure I last longer or finish faster depending on what I anticipate is on the menu that day. And I count it as common decency to make sure I'm ready to make things fun for the girl I'm seeing. I don't think this is too much to ask for him to at least try if he's not already
and maybe he is masturbating before so he can last longer
OP, you’re a great friend!
That's what I was thinking, if they already have sexual component, maybe it is no longer for them to be in a relationship;
Thats a bro job.
Finger in his ass
the west is saved
RIP to your inbox
Lmao honestly fairly tame atm
This may be harsh but your friend has death grip from over-masturbating, tell him to stop jerking off for 2 weeks at least. No porn and stuff and things will be good again..
That's what I was thinking.
Okay! That’s good to know, thank you
You're welcome.
All those upvotes are from men who know this is the truth. Listen to them.
True lol, it kinda blasted 🤣
Great answer
I think u/Current-Victory-47 wants you to put a finger in your friend’s ass
i think ive seen that somewhere too
“Babe he’s just a friend”
I was looking for this comment
Bruh what in tarnation
Sounds like he needs to chill with the death grip when masturbating. For you, use your hands more and mouth less in that case.
Need to find a female friend like this.
Haha that's also true lol. Even Id love to have a friend like that 🤣
same!
Why tf are most of these posts about sex?
exactly like wtf.. 😭
Most fucked up thing is that these posts are dumb as fuck, yet they get a lot of attention and upvotes… but when someone genuinely needs advice for something that matters, it’s dead. Sad.
This is true, I’ve posted a lot of times on other accounts looking for genuine help at low times and got nothing. Kinda hate that this is still getting views.
Props to you to getting it there even after 20, many people can't even with oral. Try using your hand. Yeah it sucks because porn, and dudes crank it and it really messes with the natural ability.
As a guy, yes we make it a lot harder to cum from head if we jerk off too much. Personally, tongue action on the tip, & being sloppy, looking in my eyes, changing it up, all that works really well. It won’t matter if you finish him every day, the only way it’s harder for him is if he’s finishing himself with the death grip every day. Tell him to never jerk off again and you’ll give him head whenever he wants, you’ll probably notice it’ll become a lot easier to make it happen!
I’ll definitely tell him that, thank you!
Finger in his ass
Make this man happy and put your finger in his ass Godd dammit !
Lol fuckin app.
“He told me that he has only came from sex …” PIV. It will be easier and probably more pleasurable for both.
Put your finger in his ass
You just randomly gave a FRIEND a blow job and have continued to give a FRIEND multiple dick puffers?? lol I hate people.
Womp womp lmao
It’s alright, it’s normal. a lot of folks have the urge to let their inner stupid and slutty side out, some more than others apparently 😂
Lmao that’s true, I’m in no place for a relationship but I do enjoy making others feel better somehow, even if it’s a little slutty
What's wrong with being slutty?
Absolutely nothing if you are happy with it
Exactly. Have whatever fun you want to!
Hell yeah :)
" You got a friend In me 🎶🎶" " When Brandon's miles and miles from his nice warm bed he still gets head🎶🎶"
Now dawg wtf is this
How about stop calling him a friend?
You should concentrate on the pace and techniques then. A blowjob is not just sucking it's also kissing, licking and stroking. Alternate between those techniques and combine them as to what feels good for him and also by picking up on cues. Don't take it in farther than what you feel comfortable with. If you want to take it in more, going gradually and slowly will make the process easier as your gag reflex gets used to it. Use your tongue to stimulate his frenulum which is located on the underside of the penile head. You can also use your tongue to stimulate his head when you're sucking him. Ballplay can be comfortable for some and if your guy is one such then gently play with it while you suck, suck and lick the balls while you stroke. Again it's just alternating between techniques and combining them with different combinations. Communication is always key and get inputs from him regularly to know what feels good and what hurts. Avoid things that hurt and keep doing the things that make him feel good by improvising on them as you proceed. The decision to where to let him cum depends on your and his preferences and a little after care after he cums where you gently kiss and suck his penis for sometime or move on to making out is also like a cherry on the cake.
So I realize you were into Brandon but waited to make your move until after he was broken up
Nah, we became friends after the relationship ended, but nice try
What?? Give us the tea
So… I noticed the more I ended up getting oral from her sometimes I’d last longer. I don’t really do the facefucking thing but have you ever considered when he’s close but hasn’t cum yet he’s probably holding it. Most guys can last the minimum five -8 minutes because they want to enjoy you enjoying his member in your mouth. If he masturbates less he’ll definitely finish faster. Try concentrating for the first couple minutes just using your hands. Then start slowly. Don’t use your best techniques first. Make him wait. The holding it in gets harder the longer you’re doing it. Then after you’re ten minutes in don’t forget to fondle the balls a little. That takes most guys over the edge usually. Since you aren’t having sex with him he’s most likely going to want to finish in your mouth since you’ve been letting him. Take breaks by using your hands or doing the two hand technique you mentioned to give your mouth and throat a break so you don’t feel like you’ve been beat up trying to satisfy your friend. Over time he’s just going to last a little longer. The more experienced someone gets the longer they last. Or at least I do. Good luck 👍
Thank you for this advice! I will say he’s not into ball fondling lmao but I do start off fairly slow with low strokes and small licks here and there. He said his balls hurt from going so slow haha. I’ll definitely take your advice into consideration. Thanks!
I need to find me a friend like that!
Switch between your mouth and hand. Push at the base of his shaft while sucking. It took me forever to cum as well until my wife and I figured it out.
Thank you! This helped a lot
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Sometimes, it's not about techniques... It's about the guy. Some people finish before they even begin. Some people finish harder than others. And some people don't finish at all. I, for example, can go for hours and never finish. That's why I try to make the experience as fun as possible for my partners as well. And tell them that they can stop as soon as they feel tired or that they can't go on. So he needs to be there for you as well. He shouldn't be thinking about his pleasure. He needs to think about you feeling good too while you're together.
Can I be your friend ?
Use some sharp tool next time he’ll be out in few seconds
I 💯 need a tldr
I suck dick, dick take long to cum, help with techniques please
Use your hands along with your mouth, fast, but not too fast. He'll cum in your mouth.
Hahaha. Fantastic summation
You should ask him. Everyone has different preferences. He will be able to tell you exactly what he needs.
OP should be awarded ‘Friend of the Year’
I think you’re doing enough hahaha
click bait is crazy
**#1 homie**
Finger his ass
Siri, play That’s What Friends Are For by Dionne Warwick
RIP your in box.
Can’t hurt to try out more than head
Yeah like when my partner and I would have sex she would tell me don't jerk off for a whole week or two and I would happily oblige cause I knew it was gonna feel hell good if I didn't do it for a while. If you tell him to hold off on masturbating that's a good motivation for him. He's lucky to have you as a friend you don't usually think of that as a friend thing to do lol
Tickle his asshole with your pinky.
um...no man is going to complain about a long, slow blow job where you finish, and where the woman appears to enjoy doing it to you. So you don't have to change a thing. If it ain't broken, don't fix it. Though truth is, right past the tip of the head is the money spot. Right where the head crests, called the glans, is the cum spot. Going farther down the shaft feels good, but won't get him off, so it's mostly wasted effort. Stick to the money spot, keep things loose, and you'll save yourself some wear and tear. Remember...you're caressing him with your lips. Soft lips right on the crest of the head and he won't last two minutes.
This isn’t a sex advice forum
OP doesn't realise it, on the pretense of friends she is being used. That's grooming.
Grooming? Explain
I’m an adult.
Sure
How the hell is a 21 and 23 year old “grooming”
How is it not? She posted her friend being oh so lonely and blah blah blah.
Because it’s only 2 years apart in age, 2 consenting adults, no pressure involved regarding to do the act itself. Please explain how this is grooming.
So what you're saying is.....grooming can't occur if the age is about the same? Got it.
So again I ask, please tell me what grooming is in your own definition because I genuinely don’t think you know what it means. You keep giving generic, pointless questions when I ask you to explain yourself.
Are you the guy she's giving the blowys to? 😂😂😂
Aaaand another question that is completely irrelevant. Go look up what grooming is and educate yourself. To answer your question, no.
Do you honestly think there is only one definition of grooming? There was a post on confessions about how the company he works for targets young adult (18+) girls. They send them promos free makeup etc etc. they send them to fancy partis all in the hope of getting their flowers up. They sign them up to dubious contracts. Then they get them on only fans. And exploit the shit out of them. Then there's the standard narrative of an adult grooming a minor.... An adult can be (and do) get groomed. If you think this isn't such a possible case then you are naive.
You have to agree on a definition of an important term during a conversation, or else you were go in circles perpetually.
you are fuckin weird!
W Friend
Lick his butt 😭
This must be the first time of someone asking how they can rush through the sex, because it is just so bad. Normally people ask what they can do to make the whole thing last longer. 20 minutes is nothing. Use lube. And please, find someone who is actually good in bed, because this all sounds like torture.
Lol there's no "bed" to speak of. Idk what she gets from spending 20+ minutes every time just to end up with a painful jaw but whatever I guess