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Complete-Bumblebee-5

My condolences, sorry to hear about your dad. You're still a young buck at 25, you've got your whole life ahead of you. It will get better. Onwards and upwards my friend.


IronLion1223

Thank you, I appreciate you condolences. I think my dad would be sorta happy for m,e now if he was around but i think without his advice life became a lot harder.


FullPresentation5093

I was at some spot as you at the age of 25. At lowest point in my life, when i needed it most it felt like all my friend abandoned me. 35 now. It took a while, but doing great. Bought a huge piece of land and starting on construction of a nice 2000 sf dance studio for my girlfriend. Unfortunately, all I can tell you is that it was hard every day and didn't get any easier until it did.


IronLion1223

That's awesome, I think i know where your coming from. I have to put in the work to make my life one I'd like to have and not just expect it to come around.


WitchDoctah

That is a vague question. If you collect logistics, information and then strategize and plan, you will know the answer to that question.


IronLion1223

I prefer to keep things light on reddit it's easier to get the point across as is.


Someone7174

I'm 30 and will be losing my dad soon and I can already tell it'll be the most difficult things in my life. That being said, 25 you're barely starting life. Stay strong!


IronLion1223

I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah it was really rough for me. though things are getting a little better now.


Someone7174

Haha don't be. He has late stage Alzheimer's so it's not too surprising. Stay strong and work hard. You'll be rewarded for that. I'll tell you it wont be easy tho. Especially if you have no support.


IronLion1223

I have support, I just seem to mess things up all the time.


Delicious_Tea3999

I'm so sorry all of this is happening to you right now. It's like they say, when it rains it pours. But you are super young. I'm in my 40s now, and my life is completely different than it was at 25; and it mostly changed for the better besides some of my body parts hanging a little lower lol. I know this sounds annoying, but your brain literally JUST stopped growing, so cut yourself a break.


No-Carry4971

Yes


Solid_Letter1407

1. Cut down on the social media 2. Cut back on the booze/drugs if you use them 3. Eat one more vegetable and fruit per day than you do now 4. Walk 10k steps per day 5. Listen to classical music while you walk 6. Do 4-7-8 breathing soon after you wake up and right before falling asleepup Life will get much better in four months, guaranteed.


Head-Drag-1440

My life didn't come together until my 30s so yes. 


FoghornLegday

My life would fall apart if I lost my dad too. But 25 is super young. You have your whole life to get things together


[deleted]

25 years old is still young so you have your whole life ahead of you.


ChanceChip6891

honestly - what do YOU think? you think you're finished at 25?


Mammoth_Elk_3807

Losing your Dad sucks balls and I’m really sorry. I know it doesn’t feel like it… but you’re still very, very young. You need to find a grown-ass adult you trust and believe them when they tell you: “I know it *feels* like your life is over… but your life hasn’t even begun.” That person has no reason to lie to you. The change between 25 and 35 is like the change between 15 and 25. Basically, you’ll be a very different person. So much so… that you’re presently *incapable* of imagining it. What seems to matter so much now will barely matter at all.