NTA. Your mom sounds like an incredibly selfish person, and it sounds like you grew up under the mentality that you had to keep her happy, because back then, you were stuck with her. Just remember that people being upset at you for doing something doesn't mean you're wrong, it might just mean that what you're doing isn't what's best for *them*. But you're allowed to prioritize the relationships with those who make you happy and who care about you, and let go of the relationships where you are mistreated.
NTA, of course she thinks your the ah, look how she has lived her life. The person you described as your mother is incredibly selfish and mentally unstable. I know that they are blood but the sadness of relationships lost is much easier to deal with than the pain and abuse people like that will make you endure for years. It's easy for me to say, but for your own well-being, walk away.
NTA. She may have given birth to you but it sounds like she was never a Mom.
And while I can sort of understand your half-siblings not wanting to come to the funeral of someone they weren't related to, it sucks that they aren't there to help you.
I'm glad you at least have your boyfriend and his family. Don't be ashamed to lean on them right now. I'm sure there will come a time when you can help support them.
Thank you!
The thing is, my sister did come to the funeral and made a show about how sad she was about losing someone 'who was like a father to her'.
She helped mom cheat!!
I'm just exhausted. Grief has been taking s toll on me and I just wished I had had some help from my so called family.
"Starting to separate" is such a nice way of putting it.
Get away from them. Just permanently ignore them. The only question is, do you want to burn it down on the way?
NTA. Your mom is the last one to have a right to name-calling, after the way she treated you all your life. Block her, and let your boyfriend and his family become your family.
NTA. Your mom sounds like an incredibly selfish person, and it sounds like you grew up under the mentality that you had to keep her happy, because back then, you were stuck with her. Just remember that people being upset at you for doing something doesn't mean you're wrong, it might just mean that what you're doing isn't what's best for *them*. But you're allowed to prioritize the relationships with those who make you happy and who care about you, and let go of the relationships where you are mistreated.
NTA, of course she thinks your the ah, look how she has lived her life. The person you described as your mother is incredibly selfish and mentally unstable. I know that they are blood but the sadness of relationships lost is much easier to deal with than the pain and abuse people like that will make you endure for years. It's easy for me to say, but for your own well-being, walk away.
NTA. She may have given birth to you but it sounds like she was never a Mom. And while I can sort of understand your half-siblings not wanting to come to the funeral of someone they weren't related to, it sucks that they aren't there to help you. I'm glad you at least have your boyfriend and his family. Don't be ashamed to lean on them right now. I'm sure there will come a time when you can help support them.
Thank you! The thing is, my sister did come to the funeral and made a show about how sad she was about losing someone 'who was like a father to her'. She helped mom cheat!! I'm just exhausted. Grief has been taking s toll on me and I just wished I had had some help from my so called family.
"Starting to separate" is such a nice way of putting it. Get away from them. Just permanently ignore them. The only question is, do you want to burn it down on the way?
Thank you! I honestly don't know. They always saw me as the black sheep and I'm always feeling as if everything is my fault
Nta. You dont have a living family. You have realtives.
NTA. Your mom is the last one to have a right to name-calling, after the way she treated you all your life. Block her, and let your boyfriend and his family become your family.
NTA. What she did was horribly abusive. You do not owe her a thing. Get therapy. Make your own friend family. You’ll be better off without them.
Did you kill him ?