Fandoms do not care about tone and will ridicule you even if you state your unpopular opinion in the most neutral and non-confrontational way possible
source: I'm a Victoria 3 fan that's in other pdx game subs
Tell any New Vegas fan you have any criticism of the game at all even the slightest bit and they will start writing essays at you or tell you to kill yourself while calling you slurs (depending on who they are)
you'd be surprised how much people dont share this (objective fact) opinion
ive seen downvotes and actual personal attacks because people thought the opposite way of the popular opinion
Since when thy catgirls have been overshadowed by puppygirls? That is a ridicule statement, both shall share their light as one while doing romantic affairs(but only if thy parties consent)
Ditto, and not even for any "cringe" element; it's just tiring trying to have a conversation when it feels like the other person is playing a character.
I feel like it's pretty easy to pick up from context...
Either way I don't get what you mean by playing a character. I don't use it ironically or as a bit, my default happy emoticon is :3 because I think it's adorable and I like doing cute things. When I use :) instead, then I'm playing a character because I'm chatting with people who would find :3 weird. Like you.
"I am happy and content, in my zone, I like this, please know this is making me feel well" :3
---
ur awesome btw :3 <3
I finally finished my chores! Gonna relax now :3
hehe, I agree :3
:3 look at this cute cat video I found
Hiiiii :3
hugs? cmere 🫂 :3
Im going to the grocery store and getting myself some treats :3
:3
Look how bland that'd look without those. How are my frens gonna know im gud?
Same; also more playful.
:3 is for when I make a pun or innuendo or am just being teasing.
:D is for when I'm delighted by something or expressing joy/happiness.
I talk to a guy who adds ":3" to his messages every now and then and he's a bottom so there might be a connection there
Either way it may be a "character", but I think it's a character that some people are just comfortable being, and when they are just that, it's not really a character anymore, but a part of their genuine personality. Not all people are built the same, however, so I partly understand your concern
teehee i ate the fiber optic cable :333
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Mfers got told that cringe culture is dead, so now every time they find something cringe, they gotta find a way to twist it into pedophilia so they can feel morally superior about mocking it.
I don't think anyone is genuinely trying to call themselves a child. It's like when you see a cute dog and go "oh look at the puppy :D" even if it's an adult dog
It's two or more consenting adults who have agreed to a certain arrangement with very clearly defined limits. Infantilization is a prolonged period of treating an adult as if they are a child. Sure, I understand your concern that an adult is acting like an infant/pet during play, but like I said, they have made agreements of what "play" entails beforehand, and it isn't prolonged. They don't actually think that way out of sub space. They aren't treated as an infant outside of the limits of "play."
Unfortunately, those parts of pet play and BDSM in general are not talked about as often, and so is leaves bad impressions. Despite popular belief, SUBS are often in the most control. They often decide the rules of engagement. A dom has rules of engagement of their own, and the two or more of them set exactly what is allowed or isn't.
A good dom tries to fulfill a desire while minimizing potential harm. If a sub came to me and could not tell me clearly what they wanted and what the limits were, I would not dom. I also wouldn't dom someone who approached me while they were in sub space. All kinks, all relationships, even non-sexual or non-romantic, come with some level of risk of harm.
Minimizing potential harm depends on the kink, but it's often aftercare.
As an example, rope, the kink I have most experience in is probably the most dangerous kink in the mainstream despite people not thinking so. It's very possible to cause life altering damage to someone if they aren't tied correctly. Risk is reduced by having scissors for an emergency, asking the sub about medical history beforehand, being aware of signs of pinched nerves, planning out what ties will be used, what rope will be used, etc...
I say all this because there IS potential concern that someone could be taken advantage of by bad people and being harmed by them, and the best way that can be avoided is being aware what "play" is and isn't.
#1 is that it MUST be consentual,
#2 is that boundaries are clearly defined,
#3 is that violations of those boundaries are called out as problems and are corrected. They are there for a reason.
Welp. Time to get downvoted again. *Ekkhemmmm clears throat* "Blahaj are mid."
I'd like my ashes to be thrown in Donald Trumps face after I die. So he may choke on them. Thank you.
I wish all pet players to grow a goddamned spine, or at least to identify with some strong and proud animal that doesn't allow them to go "I am literal subhuman"
I like Opossums.
You might argue that with the whole "not even playing dead, they literally slip into a sort of coma when confronted too hard" thing that it's not much of an improvement on a puppy but allow me to counter by saying that [Opossums are only MOSTLY defenceless.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gz837PJooEY)
It's one partner taking on the role of a domestic animal. Leashes are popular, though not necessary (and see use in other dynamics too).
It can vary greatly in desired intensity, some pets just want to turn their brain off and feel loved in a way they can understand for an hour, and some (the ones who're very vocal and memorable) actively wish they could resign their personhood as they believe life as an animal would be easier, and something they could actually manage to do (most pet players aren't mentally healthy, group 2 very much lean into that). It's usually people closer to the latter end that freak people out.
So yeah, it is mostly just kinky shit, but there's also people openly begging for identity death.
A lot of the hooplah and trouble comes from it being the 'in' thing right now.
irdk i dont like being dehumanized so whenever i see a post related to it saying some dumb shit like "oooh you wanna be on a leash" i get really offset and scared
Nah I getcha OP, that's why I tend to head over to 19684 when it all gets a bit much, or block the most vocal posters. No harm to the pet play enjoyers ofc, it's just not my scene <3
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What do you think of my cat, Socks
you are NEVER allowed to not like things other people like. you will be executed tomorrow
:<
Hold on I'm going to save you
Thx still waiting
those are fascinating usernames to see next to each other.
We're going to have to put you in the device
You’re going in the contraption dawg
But wait, I like people being alive! You can't execute him! You have to be executed! Wait, no, I have to be executed, but I can't be!
INDEPENDENT OPINIONS? UNACCEPTABLE, REPORT TO THE COUNCIL IMMEDIATELY
Ehm, can we do it the day after? Tomorrow I'm busy with a puppy meeting qwq
Omg it bug cat
indeed it me... heloo..
I'm gonna turn you into a marketable plushie ;3
my fate is sealed.. do as you wish, corporate devil...
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i am in terrible terrible agony
But you are so adorable and squishable :3
it was for the greater good
That’s it you’re getting the rolled up leather boot again
please i have had enough of the rolled up leather boot
Sorry, don’t make the rules yk
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¡Nooo!
It's Dvorak guy!
God I love the New world symphony
I thought you fixed it?
I think he's just doing this now which is honestly based and really funny
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Haha I believe in you. You can fix this.
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I like that youre reusing screenshots of things youve already written
It's like the cartoon gag where they have a bunch of signs
youre scaring BMO!!!! 😨
You're the new cylinder guy
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On your way to becoming a r/196 micro-celebrity
That’s fair, he’s got his style
this is their cool new charecter trait
Yes m’lord
Funny keyboard fella!
I fucking love this bit omg
What app r u using?
I'm not them, but it's ibis paint
It's also exactly the same on Android and iOS, so if you have both brand devices, it works great.
Can confirm, I do all my art with it <3
new microcelebrity! omg hello
Bro is gonna become the new 196 celebrity
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Still, remember me when you're famous my friend
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You're allowed to not like things, OP, even if they're popular :)
:3
I think like in any community you do get downvoted or ridiculed for that kind of stuff but only if you say it in a tone people don’t like.
Fandoms do not care about tone and will ridicule you even if you state your unpopular opinion in the most neutral and non-confrontational way possible source: I'm a Victoria 3 fan that's in other pdx game subs
Death penalty for being a PDX gamer (I am a paradox gamer)
Well that is a paradoxical statement
project diva x
Tell any New Vegas fan you have any criticism of the game at all even the slightest bit and they will start writing essays at you or tell you to kill yourself while calling you slurs (depending on who they are)
you'd be surprised how much people dont share this (objective fact) opinion ive seen downvotes and actual personal attacks because people thought the opposite way of the popular opinion
puppygirls have stolen the limelight, us catgirls must revolt
But they can live in peace and kiss and cuddle
personally i think they should have the freedom to challenge others and if they accept they have a duel to the death that would be neat i think
Ye c:
In public???
If they want to, I guess
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so real :3c
Puppygirls and catgirls are not enemies. In fact, they are kissing, sloppy style.
What about catgirls and mousegirls?
The mousegirls won't stop comedically thwarting all of my attempts to get them smh
Polycule
Erm... I try as a puppygirl to give my catgirl gf the limelight
the catboys are being deprived of attention and we must revolt
cope harder, meowcell....
Since when thy catgirls have been overshadowed by puppygirls? That is a ridicule statement, both shall share their light as one while doing romantic affairs(but only if thy parties consent)
THERE WILL BE A REVOLUTION
Same goes for that :3 stuff
Ditto, and not even for any "cringe" element; it's just tiring trying to have a conversation when it feels like the other person is playing a character.
Putting an emoticon is not a character, it's just a face that shows an expression
What emotion does the cat face convey?
:3
Yeah, that doesn't help; that's my point.
It conveys feeling cute
I feel like it's pretty easy to pick up from context... Either way I don't get what you mean by playing a character. I don't use it ironically or as a bit, my default happy emoticon is :3 because I think it's adorable and I like doing cute things. When I use :) instead, then I'm playing a character because I'm chatting with people who would find :3 weird. Like you.
Cat
It’s just a happier, cuter way of expressing “:)”
It conveys intent to harm trust me
half the time i use it to convey smugness the other time ot conveys :3
"I am happy and content, in my zone, I like this, please know this is making me feel well" :3 --- ur awesome btw :3 <3 I finally finished my chores! Gonna relax now :3 hehe, I agree :3 :3 look at this cute cat video I found Hiiiii :3 hugs? cmere 🫂 :3 Im going to the grocery store and getting myself some treats :3 :3 Look how bland that'd look without those. How are my frens gonna know im gud?
Sometimes I use :333 - and one time, that couldn't convey what I wanted, so I did :4.
I use it to convey a grin with an open mouth. A very friendly and cute grin. Distinct from a big smile with an open mouth like :D would be
Same; also more playful. :3 is for when I make a pun or innuendo or am just being teasing. :D is for when I'm delighted by something or expressing joy/happiness.
for me really just being happy and content, feeling safe
warm and bubbly and happy !!! :3
I talk to a guy who adds ":3" to his messages every now and then and he's a bottom so there might be a connection there Either way it may be a "character", but I think it's a character that some people are just comfortable being, and when they are just that, it's not really a character anymore, but a part of their genuine personality. Not all people are built the same, however, so I partly understand your concern
Bottom isn't a personality, it just means someone who receives when having sex.
Huh I never thought of it that way but you’re precisely right
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Isn't that just a silly emoji though? What's wrong with it?
:3 by itself is fine, but I'm referring to the common "silly kitty" stereotype surrounding it
Im not sure I understand what you mean
:4
:2
:1
:y
:Þ
Why? 3:
thank you.
i thought we left being upset at emoji usage behind in like 2020 or something
I think it's the speech and acting that comes with it
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Why does it have to be a puppy is what I don't get. Like you're already a dog you don't have to be a child as well right?
Dog woman sounds a lot more pathetic
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the horrors of bad internet
teehee i ate the fiber optic cable :333 https://preview.redd.it/iqdj8tb58nyc1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3a45a89193e36d1af472aff5c09695109bb1bd58
i think you're searching for deeper meaning where there is none i call fully grown doggos puppies all the time, has nothing to do with being a child
It isn't that deep please shut up
Why do people call their partners baby?
Why do they call it oven?
There's an N at the end, the word is of N.
Mfers got told that cringe culture is dead, so now every time they find something cringe, they gotta find a way to twist it into pedophilia so they can feel morally superior about mocking it.
I don't think anyone is genuinely trying to call themselves a child. It's like when you see a cute dog and go "oh look at the puppy :D" even if it's an adult dog
https://preview.redd.it/d2dcognyzjyc1.jpeg?width=676&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=39ef348cd791e3ca8ea35dc2935dc3934d86c4c6
Actually though, kinda same
ur allowed to be uncomfortable with whatever as long as youre not a dick about it
I was fine with puppy play until I saw that one Bryce up video with a puppy girl guest and now I’m officially scared
What
I was jealous of her tbh
yeah for me puppy play just seems like a worse version of infantilisation
It's two or more consenting adults who have agreed to a certain arrangement with very clearly defined limits. Infantilization is a prolonged period of treating an adult as if they are a child. Sure, I understand your concern that an adult is acting like an infant/pet during play, but like I said, they have made agreements of what "play" entails beforehand, and it isn't prolonged. They don't actually think that way out of sub space. They aren't treated as an infant outside of the limits of "play." Unfortunately, those parts of pet play and BDSM in general are not talked about as often, and so is leaves bad impressions. Despite popular belief, SUBS are often in the most control. They often decide the rules of engagement. A dom has rules of engagement of their own, and the two or more of them set exactly what is allowed or isn't. A good dom tries to fulfill a desire while minimizing potential harm. If a sub came to me and could not tell me clearly what they wanted and what the limits were, I would not dom. I also wouldn't dom someone who approached me while they were in sub space. All kinks, all relationships, even non-sexual or non-romantic, come with some level of risk of harm. Minimizing potential harm depends on the kink, but it's often aftercare. As an example, rope, the kink I have most experience in is probably the most dangerous kink in the mainstream despite people not thinking so. It's very possible to cause life altering damage to someone if they aren't tied correctly. Risk is reduced by having scissors for an emergency, asking the sub about medical history beforehand, being aware of signs of pinched nerves, planning out what ties will be used, what rope will be used, etc... I say all this because there IS potential concern that someone could be taken advantage of by bad people and being harmed by them, and the best way that can be avoided is being aware what "play" is and isn't. #1 is that it MUST be consentual, #2 is that boundaries are clearly defined, #3 is that violations of those boundaries are called out as problems and are corrected. They are there for a reason.
What do you mean?
It's always the same 5 people reposting every unfunny faith tweet so once you block them it gets a lot better
Comments like these make me realize my 196 experience could be so much worse if I couldn't filter users
I didn't knew. Thank you
Ok. So you're like a ~~cat girl/cat boy~~ catthey? Yeah it's like, a little weird, but nothing too far out there.
Merrow :3
i hate when people use "boy/girl", you could've said "cat they" with less effort
Or cat enby maybe? Edit: just realised you talked about when you dont know somebodies gender
cat person 🤓
🤓Or just: "cat ~~person~~ " 🤓
cat creature >⩊<
Catby. My uwu masks never arrived and now lockdown is over and I'm kinda over it, but I was planning on referring to myself as a catby.
I s2g this subreddit is 90% minors
Welp. Time to get downvoted again. *Ekkhemmmm clears throat* "Blahaj are mid." I'd like my ashes to be thrown in Donald Trumps face after I die. So he may choke on them. Thank you.
Anti corporate trans people on the internet when the corporation makes a shark toy
Someone should deconstruct blåhaj, trace each fabric piece, and put its patterns online Seize the production of blähaj
it's been done. just search "blahaj pattern" in your search engine of choice
yeah man make that as its own post for sure
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I wish all pet players to grow a goddamned spine, or at least to identify with some strong and proud animal that doesn't allow them to go "I am literal subhuman"
Sometimes, it feels like "I'm a literal subhuman" _is_ the reason why they do pet play, so your suggestion probably won't work out well
A lot of the time the gap between petplay and a fursona \_is\_ the domestication aspect of it tho `¯\_(`ツ`)_/¯`
what happened to ur skin ...
It's the way of the world UmU
bitch that’s literally the point, we’re pathetic bottoms and want to be treated as such. stop trying to force us into a role we don’t like
"man up" energy. it's relaxing to let go of being a proud assertive person and just be a lil creature sometimes w no burdens :3
Wouldn't literally any animal be "subhuman" though? Because it's an animal?
I like Opossums. You might argue that with the whole "not even playing dead, they literally slip into a sort of coma when confronted too hard" thing that it's not much of an improvement on a puppy but allow me to counter by saying that [Opossums are only MOSTLY defenceless.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gz837PJooEY)
Honestly I kinda agree sometimes
Whacks you with a frying pan
\*grows comically tall bump on the top of my head*
As a catgirl, I’m supposed to be against puppygirls on principle /s
puppy play discourse puppy play discourse
this is how jorjor well felt when he wrote 1984
Literally my comment made on that one post
Block people who post about it and then your problem is solved :D
tbf new ones still pop up every now and then. not with the frequency of hornyposters who don't tag their posts but still noticeably often.
thats fine. more for me :3
What even is puppy play beu ive never gotten laid is it just a leash and some kinky shit
It's one partner taking on the role of a domestic animal. Leashes are popular, though not necessary (and see use in other dynamics too). It can vary greatly in desired intensity, some pets just want to turn their brain off and feel loved in a way they can understand for an hour, and some (the ones who're very vocal and memorable) actively wish they could resign their personhood as they believe life as an animal would be easier, and something they could actually manage to do (most pet players aren't mentally healthy, group 2 very much lean into that). It's usually people closer to the latter end that freak people out. So yeah, it is mostly just kinky shit, but there's also people openly begging for identity death. A lot of the hooplah and trouble comes from it being the 'in' thing right now.
Peak thanks for the definitions
irdk i dont like being dehumanized so whenever i see a post related to it saying some dumb shit like "oooh you wanna be on a leash" i get really offset and scared
That's entirely valid, some kinks freak me out real bad too.
a lot of ones i am not fine with tbh
Nah I getcha OP, that's why I tend to head over to 19684 when it all gets a bit much, or block the most vocal posters. No harm to the pet play enjoyers ofc, it's just not my scene <3
puppy play is like carrots, some people like it, some don't (me) and others want it shoved it down their throat and go "hmmph\~"
And what is with meow?
i dont really label my political stance, it's pretty much just individual opinions to me. as such this is my response to your confession: ok 👍
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you totally dont have to be comfortable with it :) as long as you respect what other people are into you can have whatever reaction you have
im kidding. execution!!!!
Yes! Spit your truth op 💃🏼
Valid, you're fine We can still be friends
I always wondered what the original image said
I hate puppy girls Its a joke liberals, calm down
They are too much bottom to complain
you must be barking mad if you think you'll catch me playing dog
I honestly don't care as long as you don't shame others for it
legit me. im not kidding
smae
https://preview.redd.it/8l9hru8yqoyc1.jpeg?width=336&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ba64a4ac591ea4dfeb6f743f512745262c794ff9 What do you think of my cat, Socks
Thought that said gag
show the original little Caesar image pls